Is it normal that i want my baby to have a disorder ?

If you feel the need to take care of someone special, why dont you adopt a child with down syndrome? This way you can guarentee you get what you feel like you need.

Who would want to have that happen? Sure if it does you still love the kid, but why wish a difficult life on yourself and your future kid?

Having a child with a disability is hard. With down syndrom it can be extremly hard. Why would you wish that on your child. This is sad and I suggest you see a counseler. Maybe you just feel or them or have a connection with disabled kids.... in that case become a special ed. teacher. Just don't wish something like that on your child ok. It is one thing to have the child be special ed. and just enjoying your child for who he or she is, but it is another to want that life. Plus having a special ed child takes a lot of time away from your other kids and puts a lot of responsibility on them at a young age... trust me I know.

Your boyfriend's family history has no effect on your fertility (so, no, twins are not likely). However, wishing a disorder on another human being, especially your unborn child, is just sick.

So they could die at an early age? You need to educate yourself.

You should never wish that onto someone, not even if you would love them forever regardless.

First you said you didn't want a girl, then you said you did. Now you are wishing a disability on someone? Are you even mature enough to have a child?

Hopefully what she means is that if a child that is down syndrome was destined to be born she would want to be their mother.

Why would you wish something so awful for your unborn child?!

Your boyfriend is right. You are nuts. If natural selection deems you to have one so be it, but it is a life long commitment on your part. Educate yourself.

seriously, why? do you know how hard your child's life will be if he/she has down syndrome? do some research...

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How cruel is it to wish pain and suffering on a child not to mention the ridicule and judgments that child will endure

There is something wrong with you. And I'm completely serious. If I met you I'd be tempted to slap you.

why?

I mean "downs" (if that's the correct noun for someone with down syndrome) do seem to be nicer than the average person, so if that's your incentive, then I can understand. However, intelligence and self-sufficiency are still the most important qualities in people. Sad but true

Wonder why people voted normal to this!? This is a whole new level of fucked up!

Here is a theory... Do it with Ur dad/bro and ull get ur wish! Sicko.

What will happen to your child once you can no longer care for them? The aging/death of a parent with a mentally challenged child pretty much makes the kid the responsibility of the people around them....

no. this is so far from normal that its off the scales and buried itself in the ground.
maybe you are wording this wrong... are you maybe trying to say that if you have a baby, then you will love it no matter what and that you wouldnt care if it had a disorder? because if you screw yourself up while you are pregnant just to screw the baby up then you are an extremely horrible, evil and selfish waste of a human being.... cant even call you a human being....

Wow... A lot of people seem to be against this. To be honest, it seems pretty normal to me. But is it because you want to have to care for them more? Is it because you like to help out people with DSD? Or do you not know?

So you not only want a baby with Down Syndrome, but an out-of-wedlock one. With a guy you've been with for one year.

Why not just *adopt* a Down Syndrome baby, and get your tubes tied? Do *everyone* a favor.

Sounds like Munchausen By Proxy. Don't breed, asshole.

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