Is it normal that i want him too?

I have been dating this guy for over a year. I love him dearly and he means the world to me, but he is not very affectionate or passionate. I am a pretty girl and I get a lot of attention from other men, which has caused a huge problem in our relationship. We have cheated on each other, lied, gotten into physical situations, and said heartbreaking things to each other. This being said, I have left a couple or times and so has he, but we always end up together again. I have been seeing another guy secretly. He is great in bed and always knows when to hold my hand or put his arm around me. He is a bit unreliable and basically the opposite of my boyfriend. Together, they would be perfect. Is this normal?

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37% Normal
Based on 35 votes (13 yes)
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Comments ( 5 )
  • joybird

    Neither of these sound like the perfect Prince.

    Keep looking!!

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  • ccjigsaw

    Gotta love these stories. "I love him dearly" "we cheat and lie to eachother." Yes. Yes you do. Just like how I loves freddy >:D Dats why I ripped out his heart and killed him. For love!!!!

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    • stonyroller

      Sorry, but IMO, which we are entitled to on the internet...for now, monogamy is a dead practice for a lot of people. You didn't even answer me at all. Just came to be rude, huh?

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      • ccjigsaw

        Yes.

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  • thecoldhardtruth

    If you asking if cheating on your boyfriend is normal, sadly yes, it is. As a lot of trashy girls/boys do that to their significant other. However, it is wrong.
    You can't have your cake and eat it too and still pretend that youre a good person. If you want to be with this new guy then break up with your current boyfriend and do it properly. Yet there is no telling if you'll be happy with this new guy either, so you'll probably just cheat on him too.

    Have a nice life, hope aids doesn't get ya.

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