Is it normal that i want him this badly?

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Okay so here's the deal, my best friend used to date this guy that I've known since like 5th grade but never really got close with him until this year. She was in love with him for months, & they would date on & off for like 4 months, then they finally broke it off & just became friends. But then, about a month ago he started to date one of her other best friends and she was crushed. She basically cried on my shoulder. But now I think I'm starting to fall for him. And she doesnt know this but, we're kinda friends with benefits.. We send pictures back and forth to each other like every night and we're very touchy when we see each other, nothing too serious. But I kinda feel bad now that I'm going behind her back like this. What should I do?

Continue my relationship with him 6
Tell her what's going on & see what she thinks 29
I should back off & forget him 22
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  • Hoohahohyahhh
    11 years ago

    Don't touch the exes of your friends, it leaves a bad taste seeing as they're "leftovers". No but seriously, if she cried when he dated another girl, why do you think she won't get mad at you, the person with the shoulder to lean on? If she felt like her best friend betrayed her, then someone who she trusts to cry to would definitely be capable of hurting her as well. Unless she is over it, she will still give you that "bitch eating my leftovers" look and distance herself from you. Weight your options, see which one matters more, which one you want more. Love or friendship. I'd say friendship if she was a good friend to you. Actually, I'd say friendship period, get another dude, literally too much fish in the sea when you're young.

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    • JustinBiebsFan#1
      11 years ago

      sammich

      do you want a damn sammich?

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  • Georgeisawesome
    11 years ago

    Its really your call but, i think you should tell your friend what's going on regardless of the consequences because that's what an honest friend does

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  • VioletBlueHearts
    11 years ago

    Kinda? Girl, you needa really talk to your friend about this because she'll be absolutely devastated by this betrayal you are putting on her after she had so much trust for you. You don't want to ruin your guys' friendship do you? Come on, just think about it please.

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  • lc1988
    11 years ago

    He sure sounds like a winner!

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  • Brickinit
    11 years ago

    Maybe a three way would clear things up, then everyone's a winner :D

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