Is it normal that i want him.. but when i have him.. bleh.

ugh its because you want everything and by doing this you will probably never know the person properly and you know why? because this person knows exacly who u are

I DO THAT TOO. I'm always oh I want a boyfriend I want a boyfriend. Then I get one and I'm like..ew I wanna be single. So I start ignoring them. I'm afraid I'll end up alone.

is the other person even aware of this relationship? In your case, I'd double check. You're both confusing. Him for wanting to deal with any of that bullshit in the first place.. (no pun intended.. wait, is there a pun?? See: that's exactly what I mean).

Hi! You're an attention whore! Have a great day!

Reallllly immature. I've had it done to me before. Not cool

you need psychotherapy

Yeah it's normal, try and wait longer before getting together to see if the liking wears off. Also try and get to know them really well before starting anything, again to check whether you are only liking the fact that they are a new exciting person to try and get with.

When you start to get bored try to think of all the things you used to like about them and make it a challenge to get yourself to like them again.

Maybe you should take a break from relationships for a while, or try open relationships. This can be fun because it's even harder to get with someone when you aren't offering them any commitment, and it also prepares guys for the fact you might ditch them fairly easily.

But try really hard not to be a jerk to these guys because it is not their fault you've got bored of them, this pattern shows it's you, not something they are doing.

Sad to say it is normal... Doesn't make it okay though

It's the game u love!

Whether or not this is normal you should definitely not ignore and act like a jerk to your new bf even if you don't like him anymore because that's just mean. You should tell him you're not ready for a relationship. Hopefully once you find someone you actually connect with you wont feel like this.

^This.
Also, you're making yourself sound like a whore

That's idiotic. Honestly. Don't ever expect a real relationship if you always do this.