Is it normal that i want everyone to fancy me/have sex with me?

In the last 6 months Ive felt this tremendous urge to have everyone fancy me. I want so badly for everyone to want to sleep with me? I constantly try and make myself look my "best" and If I don't feel that people are admiring my apperance it really gets to me? Men and women of any shape or apperance. Not sure why I have suddenly become so vain?

What the hell is up with that?

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Based on 387 votes (260 yes)
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  • cranberry420

    wow i was really relieved to read this, just went through a similar situation

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  • beckett

    Sounds like you found confidence, now keep it, don't question it, it's yours. There is nothing wrong wanting to be desired by all. Let them all desire and fantasize about your body, it doesn't mean they can have it. Vanity is a wonderful thing, just use it wisely.

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  • softballfaith24

    Everyone feels this way eventuely

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  • hehe does that include me ;) x?

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  • becauseican

    Same problem, although I just remind myself that I have my hands, when i get home...

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  • RentingEmotion

    Desperate for attention.

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  • queen_bee_520

    I went through this right before I met my husband. I think its normal. Just try not to act on it. Trust me sleeping with any one that looks your way is a good way to get into trouble!!

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  • bigondeals

    I'd say if most people you wanted attention from is normal, but everyone... not so

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  • everyone? the mind boggles, what about
    Sadamm Hussein or Justin beiber, the fat dutch guy in austin powers, letterman, rosie odonnell or for girls precious, phyllis diller, boy george
    if you can say yes to these then sure i believe it and its normal

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  • Dude you're just horny.

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  • InsertBlankHere

    IIN that I don't pay attention to people who seek such attention? Sorry to disappoint you, OP. I wouldn't fancy you.

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  • theytookthisone

    You sound like Alisha from Misfits

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  • flavorofmadness

    Nellie, fancy is a common word for being liked in places like the UK. Not everyone uses American slang, especially those who aren't American.

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  • LovingTogether

    As an older man, I say to myself "I love all people and could have sex with all people."

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  • stardogchampion

    It's good to be confident but if your confidence is solely reliant on sexual attention and you constantly need that reassurance then you,ve gotta have low esteem...ill bet it bothers you when hotter women get the attention and you dress provocative to get your self worth fix....a true beauty can go out in a t shirt and jeans without make up and behave decently and still have every guy in the room watching them.love who you are and stop acting so desperate as there really is nothing less attractive...

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  • pappu

    it is normal till the ones you fanatise about are NOT one of your family members

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  • gako

    You are really insecure abt yourself. Just relax and take a chill pill. I'm sure there's plenty of you to go around lol

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  • kechikjitra

    the DEVIL is inside you...

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  • Paris2005

    Its fine and terribly normal. Just a fantasy a lot of people enjoy. Try a nudist colony.

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  • Paris2005

    One of the earlier questions asked "What would you do with magic powers?" lol I'd be able to cast a spell on any woman I wanted. She'd be so wildly horny she would find me and do anything I wanted; be my sex slave for 3 days. Then pick another, and on and on. Mmmm. Sounds like heaven. lol

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  • noodle76

    *plays austin powers theme song*

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  • Satchmo

    This is the perfect example of people being dishonest in answering poles this should be above 90 percent but it's at sixty everyone is this way

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  • longnailguy

    If in Conn. Look me up

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  • Kateee

    I have the same problem. I think it is because i never used to be very attractive and over the last couple of years i have grown into my looks and suddenly a whole heap of people were showing interest.
    Thats what caused me to become so vain, but i found my committed relationship with a guy that loved me before all that settled me down.

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  • TyLee

    I'm the same way

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  • boxerhoney2006

    Just masterbate honey!!
    Look in a full length mirror while doing it you'll enjoy it.

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  • nellie334

    First off FANCY? Wth!

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  • Jupiter

    Lust after her^

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  • Jupiter

    She didn't say she wants to sleep with them, she just wants them to list after her.

    Is it common? Yes

    Is it psychologically healthy? No

    A good self-esteem is good, an unhealthy craving for outside attention means something triggered it. Find out what.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    Probably comes from insecurities. Maybe it's not that you want attention from everyone, you're just looking for that one person thats gonna make you feel secure, and confident. And you want your pleasures, you know... sex. You wanna feel like you mean something to someone. And don't worry you do. Someone loves you. You shouldn't feel like you need to put on a show to get attention. I'm sure you're fine the way you are without trying.

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