Is it normal that i want but don't want to come out to my friends

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I am very popular, yet for being flamboyant, and in the closet. Everyone knows I'm gay. I don't hide it. But I don't confirm it. I just "Prance" around it. I stare at guys, but I'm very tall, and muscular, so no one says anything, because they're scared. I don't do sports, and I dress amazingly. I talk normally, and I can hide it if I want, but I want to be me. I don't want to be found out. I want to be mysterious. But I'm not happy. I don't want a relationship, but I feel like If I come on to the guys I like, they will tell everyone, and I will be the laughing stock of the school. I mean I sing Lady Gaga and Glee in the Cafe, and hallways. I love to be loud and fun, and all my friends are women, and gay guys, and lesbians. But, I am friends with everyone. My dilemma is this: Friday is my graduation. Should I come out before the Last day?

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  • 12koft
    13 years ago

    Just be yourself, and everyone will love you for that.

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    • ITgirl232
      12 years ago

      i was gonna say the xact same thing!

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      • Allistalla
        11 years ago

        Dude you just siad everyone already knows why not confirm it ?

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  • gleekfreak92
    13 years ago

    Oh, I forgot I posted this. I came out and everything is fine. :) Thanks for the support!

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  • karmarainbow
    13 years ago

    i dont know, i wouldnt really worry about it. its just a title, really, and whats the point? it could make you feel better, but most likely your friends already know. maybe you could ask your closest friend what they think? or hint at it? make subtles comments about liking guys?

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  • lisalyn
    13 years ago

    It always feels good to say who u are loud and proud. Go for it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You can, but it probably wont make a difference if everyone knows already.

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago

    I think you are lucky. You already sound like you are pretty comfortable in your skin. It was only a few years ago that guys and girls wouldn't even DREAM of coming out until they went to college or even much later than that. Maybe you just graduated from a really good school but it seems like younger and younger people are opening up their minds to include more kinds of people.
    If you think they really have known for awhile that you're gay then they probably would have treated you differently if they had a problem with it.
    But you have already graduated (I hope it went well) so...congrats and good luck!

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  • lewlew80
    13 years ago

    U should've came out a long time ago, especially if ur comfy in ur own skin

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  • gowila
    13 years ago

    Don't come out on that day it will be like you saved it up and every one will think you are a try hard.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It sounds like evryone knows your gay but because you dont flaunt it around they respect you and dont say anything to you. i would suggest not saying anything just wait till you leave school and find someone they dont need to know your not gonna see a lot of them again

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If your proud of what you are you should

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  • neptune692
    13 years ago

    My advice is just be yourself. If you feel like you are ready to let people know who you are then do so. I don't think it is a good idea to hide who you really are for to long. Like you said you won't feel happy going through life that way. Good Luck!

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