Is it normal that i want another relationship but i love my girlfriend

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Please be open-minded about my topic and read through everything to understand my issue.

I have a girlfriend that I love and have been (very happy)with for 2 years. I never see her because she actually lives across the country. I plan on seeing her this summer. But that may be irrelevant.

My issue is that I am constantly trying to find someone to either have sex with or flirt or whatever.But I care about my girlfriend and how I go behind her back. I hate myself for it but I am constantly wanting to do things with other girls.
Before I thought it was because I'm not with my girlfriend and I miss being with a girl physically.
Is it normal?
I want your opinions/thoughts though. Thank you.

And don't criticize me for having a long distance relationship. You don't know me.

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  • legendary27
    12 years ago

    No criticism, honest. But... if you actually loved your girlfriend, you would not cheat on her. You would either get over your sexual needs and watch porn like a lot of other people suffering in a long distance relationship or end it before she finds out what you've done and be devastated wondering if there was something she could've done to prevent what YOU did to her. If you love her you'd make sure she gets out of that situation with her feelings spared as much as possible.

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    #yoloswag

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago

    Cant have both old boy. Either keep the far away girlfriend that loves you and that you love. Or ditch her and go for the retched process of being single and actually having to TRY to impress women, instead of just knowing that you'll always get some.

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  • ICookChickenAtKFC
    12 years ago

    Thank you Ldizzy. The only thing is I just can't see myself ending it with her. I could always offer an open-relationship until we can be together but I would hate knowing she was with someone else. And that's why I regret everything because I know she would hate if I did that. I just don't know what to do.

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    • Ldizzy1234
      12 years ago

      I also think that you should really speak with her about this little rut that you're in. She might have a solution. Maybe she feels the same way.

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    • Ldizzy1234
      12 years ago

      If you really love her and she loves you, then don't let her go just to fill your sexual pleasures/desires. Wait until both you and your girlfriend are together. Its not worth it to end it if you love her as much as you say you do. And why feel uneasy making the relationship an open one? If you really love her, you'll bear it. One day you guys could get married, and live together then you won't have to worry about the distance.

      :)

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    I'm not trying to criticize you for having a long distance relationship, but maybe its just not working for you. I mean, it seems like you really do love her. It sounds like you just wanna continue loving her without having to think about doing stuff with other girls, but you also sound like you really want that physical intimacy with your girlfriend. Yet, you can't help but think of it with other girls since your gf is so far away.

    If it's not working because of the distance, you and your girlfriend are either gonna have to think of some kind of plan, or just let the relationship go. Oh yeah, and its normal to feel the way you do.

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