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Is it bad that I actually want an abusive relationship? I want a boyfriend who hurts me, not only physically, but verbally and emotionally. If it's long distance, I want an emotionally and verbally abusive boyfriend who constantly puts me down and makes me scared. Please note that I don't want this in a sexual way, but a real relationship type of way. Is this normal???
Strange how you want such a thing. I'm pretty sure once your in a position of an abusive relationship you won't like it. Being abused is more than just physically and verbally. It's also controlling. Such as not being able to see friends or family. Not able to leave the house, hang around with friends ECT. It's not fun. You DON'T want to be abused. A real relationship isn't an abusive one! And it will mess you up. Do you want trust issues? Or worse? I dont know what is wrong with you. I guess you wanna know what it's like, seeing all those girls/boys being abused. It isnt so bad looking from the other side, eh? But when your in what they are going though you'll wanna get out of the relationship asap. But you can't. Your stuck. Your at that point when your too scared to get help. You see it isn't what you think. You think you wont get damaged. You Will.
Do you think being covard in bruises is cool? Is it to get people to feel sorry for you? Whatever the reason the answer is that is isn't normal. I'd say talk to someone who knows about this stuff. I'm sure they'll have an opinion on it.
Thank you for taking the time to respond and provide such good information with a deep understanding, I really do appreciate it. However, I feel as if abusive relationships are far more “realistic” than the “relationship goals” stereotype. Yes, I understand not all of those relationships are fake, but abusive relationships seem more real to me, whereas the other stereotype would be dreamlike, as well as too good to be true.
No you've just obviously never been in an abusive relationship. It's not just hot harsh sex and being hit on the butt. It's painful, tragic and a real nightmare.
Very strange. Just because it seems more real to you isn't a good reason. Most relationships are already as real as can be.
I guess you're attracted to overt abuse because it's "real", devastating but predictable and genuine.
I've got great news, you're already being abused by each and everyone you have met and will ever meet(mixed tenses). Learn to arouse abuse, the victim of a crime is the most abused member of society. Be a victim
you can have mine 😂...damn...i'm so tired and also so "drunk on tragic endings"
No it's not normal and you need to have therapy to deal with your masochism and low self esteem