Is it normal that i want a relationship but cant talk to boys

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I am 19 Female good looking and so confused by boys relationships and sex. I am a virgin but want to lose it. But when i get the chance to i freak out and say how stupid i am. I nearly got in a relationship bur i found out the guy lied about his age being 30. So i ran. Also have to other guys who just want to have sex and thats it. I have anxiety and find it hard to talk to people. I really want a nice boyfriend and not just to be used. But i am to shy to even talk to them and if i try i dont know what to say. Is this Normal?

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  • itsAnthony_64
    5 years ago

    Im shy myself
    I could relate to this story

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  • mariacachucha
    11 years ago

    its all in the eyes - they'll come talk to you lol

    you're not shy, you're mysterious

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    show them your fanny

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    12 years ago

    Yea....so not normal

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  • blaster
    12 years ago

    I feel for ya but your worrying way too much. I know it can be embarrassing sometimes trying to string two words together with the opp' sex but hey , look at it this way. For someone special , that's quite normal. Lots of us, male or female pretty well turn to useless mush around someone special to start with all the time.
    They say for girls it's a vgood sign they like a guy and I say it's vise verse too .
    Lots of people only connect with just that someone special, and he'll probably feel the same anyway so - ease up on yaself .
    Shy people mainly click with someone - not everyone , nothin wrong with that !

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  • EdWall234
    12 years ago

    Here's a few tips:
    1. Read a newspaper every morning before leaving so you have something to talk about.
    2. As Fonzy said don't bring sex into a relationship too early.
    3. Go to places where your skills will be appreciated or useful, find people you have something in common with.
    4.DON'T be negative but DON'T be a pushover.
    5.Treat everyone as you would your best friend (without the contact).

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      12 years ago

      This.

      The best way to get a boyfriend is to have a boy that is your friend, first. If you're just jumping into relationship after relationship it's not going to work. If you're talking to every guy as a potential mate, that may be your problem. Get to know them, take an interest in them, they take an interest in you and it goes from there.

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  • Fonzy
    12 years ago

    you could try talking to a bunch of guys, build up those conversation skillzz. After your comfortable with talkin the talk move on to the more advanced stuff i guess... :P
    a regular relationship with a guy is one thing...but adding sex to the mix can increase the chance for being used. that being said its not true for all guys, but for some it is, so when going for that relationship dont pick up guys with sex.

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