Is it normal that i want a relationship and i don't at the same time

I've been confusing myself but please hear me out...
Whenever no one is attracted to me, I always feel like I am missing out on what I could have (a relationship). But when I'm about to get into a relationship I always pull away because I feel like I don't want it anymore.
Does this happen to anyone else?
Why do I feel this way??

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  • Hagart

    It happened to me all the time last year and the years before that because I hadn’t realized how fucking gay I was until now. If you’re not straight/ questioning: don’t worry about it. It’s sort of frustrating because you want to figure it out but you really can’t. You just have to wait for that one person that you get a different feeling with to know for sure what’s going on💜 hope you figure it out

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  • friccccccccc

    i think this is perfectly normal and happens to everyone. don't feel pressured to go into a relationship if you aren't ready, and don't worry, you'll know when you are ready

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  • aheiou

    ima stay neutral on this, but your just being a bit, uhh, shit don't know how to say this but closest thing I could say is "picky", you just wanna stay as friends with that person, you just don't feel right dating that person.

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  • Bryce1000000

    It happens because life is gay. You just gotta man up with gold bond and beat it until it's straight.

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