Is it normal that i want a relationship...

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Alright well I'm sorta in a bind where I met this girl and I wanted to make something out of it (ie a relationship). I've been single for so long that I just need someone to love but I don't think I love this girl... I think I just want to get into a relationship with someone simply to end my drought. It's not even about sexual urges and she is pretty but right now I just don't know what to do... Should I pursue her or just let her go and if I do let her go I feel like I'll never be able to find anybody... Please say I'm normal. :/

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Based on 45 votes (41 yes)
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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Well see you are assuming she wants to be with you. Which she might not. You are assuming that if you ask she is going to say yes. Maybe she does not want you, maybe she does not want a relationship, and maybe she does not like being pursued. You are only chasing her in the hopes to fuck and or date her. She might just see you as a friend and likes you for this reason. You obviously do not care for her at all if you are going to instantly drop her for not dating you. This shows what a awful person you are. For this reason I would say not to date her since you are self centered and you have 0 sympathy for anyone besides yourself.

    You are asking us if you should peruse her when you don't even think to check if she might be interested. If she is not than you are fighting a losing battle and are just looking to harass someone relentlessly that might not love you back. When you admitted you don't even love her you are just dating for the sake of dating. So what is the fucking point of this nonsense?

    If you were intelligent you would first check if this person WAS INTERESTED! Just because you want to date does not mean everyone else is interested. Some people just want to be left alone. So bothering them over and over is not going to make them want you, its going to make them avoid you. Since they think you are a creepy pervert. If you are going to try and score at least be intelligent about it.

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  • la_uva_mojada
    11 years ago

    Even if you ARE successful getting into a relationship with this girl, it's not what you need. You need to work on yourself first. It wouldn't be fair to her or yourself.

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  • AuroraBorealiss
    13 years ago

    I know alot of guys who have the same issue. Your normal dude. Go for it!

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  • lmn
    13 years ago

    I'm not sure I understand how she will fulfill your need for "someone to love" if you don't actually love her... You want companionship maybe? Either way, just don't mislead her by pretending your feelings for her are something they are not.

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  • mtnw
    13 years ago

    you don't have to be "in love" to be with someone. all you plan to do is start a relationship with her, right? who knows, love may grow.

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    if u decide to get with her let her know how u feel to a point find a good way to put it then let her decide maybe u could fall for her

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Wow it posted my comment on the wrong one haha! Ignore what I said before. YOU are normal haha!

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  • Ratso
    13 years ago

    Awww of course ur normal
    But best to let her go if u arent positive about loving her, i mean if u like her 4 her go ahead and try to "win her heart" but otherwise wolait 4 the right girl
    She's out there somewhere!!!!

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