Is it normal that i want a hate relationship with someone?

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Sometimes I come across a person that I just hate, and want to compete with as much as possible, and I want them to hate and compete with me as well. But I would hate them in a way where I would also have sexual attraction or "love" for them. I wouldn't want anything (too) bad to happen to them, unless its somehow caused by me. I don't want to over dominate, or for them to over-dominate me, but rather have a sort of shared struggle toward each-other.

I have tried to start a relationship like this before, but my intentions were miscommunicated and they just tried to avoid me.

However, I can still love a person in the regular way, it depends on the kind of person.

Is "loving" someone in this way normal?

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Based on 34 votes (15 yes)
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  • Kittenfever
    7 years ago

    yes! completely normal

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    I hear what you're saying. I never thought about it before but I think I kind of want that oo. That could be interesting.

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago

    It's quite normal to want this, however.
    You won't really accomplish it by doing what you do, it's just something that happens.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    No, that does not sound normal. Either that or I don't understand that way of thinking about love. For me love and hate don't mix.

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    I think it's normal to want this. But I would find it abnormal if you get to accomplish it. It's a bit contradictory.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    Carolann, is that you? Have you come back for me? :D

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