Is it normal that i wake up sobbing from a dream?

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I have been with my boyfriend for quite some time now and I love him very much and he loves me. Nevertheless, there is always a fear in the back of my mind that he might leave me someday before or after we get married. Is it normal to have dreams about this fear and wake up sobbing and distraught? Please no negative comments, I am looking for positive answers and real feedback. Thank you.

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    I agree with Dan, but would add that you should examine your dependency on him, and imagine scenarios about what you'd do if he broke up with you. Seeing the alternatives will calm your fears.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yes it's resting on your mind so it bleeds into your dreams.

    You shouldn't worry about things that haven't happened yet unless he gives you reason to worry.

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  • Romantic-Princess123
    11 years ago

    You shouldn't really think of these things. If you keep thinking about them, you'll have nightmares about them all the time. Even if you're worried, it's best not to think about these things. Are you OK with that?

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