Is it normal that i've stopped thinking about my current girlfriend?

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Sorry if it's too long, I'll keep it as simple as possible. Thanks for reading if you can

I've been in a relationship for a month and 6 days today. I love this girl with all my heart. But recently things have been not so great. This girl although great is s little too edgy for my liking. We have sex way too often, she always wants to make out and constantly wants to see me day after day. That's not so bad. A few days ago my ex girlfriend started talking to me again. She sounded really sad and wanted to know if I was able to move in with her (she lives pretty far). I told her I was taken and that if anything happened to us I'd definitely do it. She cried a ton and I reassured her as much as I could. Ever since then I haven't been able to sleep because I've been thinking about her and now I want to break up with my current girlfriend because I miss my ex really badly. I'd do anything to live with her and be the best boyfriend I can be. I haven't seen her since July 5th and that makes me sad.

Edit: her grandma is completely okay with me moving in.
At school my ex is bullied around, they've hit her, called her names, touched her inappropriately and have humiliated her. I want to keep her safe and cuddle her like I used to do. She misses that and has said please take me back I want you.

What should I say to my girlfriend? I don't want to break her heart. But at the same time I'd be willing to do so to have my ex back. I've actually stopped thinking of my girlfriend entirely.

-Sorry for the length (please don't criticize or tell me this is a bad idea)

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  • NihilOmnisciente
    8 years ago

    Why did you even break up with her if you're that attached? I would've gone back to my ex, but it sounds like you're going to have a lot of trouble. She may not treat you the same way because you told her that you were taken.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Well, if I can't tell you this is a bad idea, I haven't anything else to say. Sorry.

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  • Noahsam97
    8 years ago

    You're right, I've told her everything. I've decided to stay with her now that we've figured out the problem. My ex is history now.

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  • Noahsam97
    8 years ago

    @ (s)ain't It's probably best if I do, I know she loves me but I'm too heartbroken over my ex. I know she misses me, and it's not just to have someone. She wants me back as her boyfriend. What should I say to my girlfriend? I don't want to break her heart

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    • Tealights
      8 years ago

      Please do not tell this poor girl that you're breaking up with her because she's too affectionate. Understand that the affection she shown you wasn't the problem.

      The issue here is, you settled for her when the loneliness became too much to bare. Now that your ex is lonely and wants you back, you're willing to return and leave her high & dry. Just tell her the truth, tell her you're still in love with your ex and can't be the boyfriend she deserves.

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago

    You should end your relationship with your GF, you don´t sound compatible at all.Poor girl just loves you ...
    You also shouldn´t rush right back to the arms of your ex, it ended once it will probably end again.
    She sounds lonely and maybe she misses the security of having someone rather than you.

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    It would be best to end the relationship with your current girlfriend, the sooner the better.

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  • Noahsam97
    8 years ago

    We broke up because of the distance. We hadn't thought of moving in with each other. I know this is a dumb reason to break up but it was for the best

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