Is it normal that i've never made a move on a guy that i liked?

Out if curiosity, how many if your crushes turned into relationships? Does anybody ever have to settle with a guy/girl that they aren't crazy about? I've never had a boyfriend and don't know if I should settle or keep waiting for a crush to like me back one day. Is it normal to have crushes that will never follow through?

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75% Normal
Based on 52 votes (39 yes)
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  • smashingpumpkinator

    usually the people i have crushes on i end up dating.. i'm not really a first move maker so i don't really get how it happens.. if you're drinking at a party it's a definite more relaxed way of getting into something without all the akwardness. if someone doesn't notice you like them then maybe they arent for you anyway. and what could it hurt to be open about it? it may be kinda scary at first but think about how you'd feel if you saw that person get with someone else before you got to him. it sucks. its better to be real with your feeelings. and if anything it would make the other crush your waiting for jealous to see you with someone else.. but its not really nice to do to the other person. you just gotta figure out whats important to you.

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  • You just need to dress sluttier.

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  • secrettellings

    everyone is this way and you shouldnt settle cause then you will be unhappy. wait for the right guy, dont just get it over with so you can have a boyfriend

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  • southernbarbie16

    I've liked plenty of guys and haven't told them. There's this one in particular that I can't make up my mind about telling....

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  • marley56

    Yea, u deff need to act a little more into them. Not like REALLY into them, but if u act like your normal self, there's no way a guy could see that u like him.

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  • socrates

    It honestly peeves me in the deepest way when I learn that a girl was into me when I was absolutely fawning over her for months. Especially when I have JUST gotten over her.

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  • pdemtm

    I definitely think it's normal. You're probably a generally reserved person, nothing wrong with that. It just won't get you very far in these areas.

    I really wish girls would just be more obvious though. It's so hard for reserved guys like me to keep going on guessing games and come out with anything.

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  • pokealottasnot

    Well, I know a girl like this and she's one of my really good friends. But I also like her too. She has never had her first kiss and it's not that it's a bad thing but depending on how old u are, u need to open up and experiment.

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