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my boyfriend and I have sex almost every weekend but I've never orgasmed. don't get me wrong I think our sex is phenomenal, but I just can't seem to finish. he thinks that it's him even though I tell him it's not. is it normal not to finish?
Yeah, it's normal.. Unfortunately. I can't orgasm unless I'm on top. It sucks, but girls need a certain amount of stimulation. More than guys do, anyway. You can touch a guy's penis and he practically orgasms.
But it's a lot more difficult for some girls, and they don't quite understand. There are two types of orgasms when it comes to females: vaginal and clitoral.
A vaginal orgasm is the most difficult to achieve, because it takes a while to get your body used to internal stimulation. However, the one you are most likely accustomed to, clitoral, happens due to the stimulation of the clitoris. Most girls find that clitoral stimulation is easier if you are on top of the man, therefore inducing an orgasm much sooner.
I would recommend you try to "ride" him, so-to-speak. If you've already attempted this, with no positive results, you could always do the stimulating yourself. Just rub your clitoris, as if you are masturbating, during intercourse. It may seem silly, but most guys find it sexy when women touch themselves, and it will almost guarantee an orgasm.
I sure hope this helps you out. Good luck. (: