Is it normal that i've never had a girlfriend and i'm 20 years old?

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I'm 20 years old, I'm going to be a Junior in college starting in the Fall and I've never had a girlfriend in my life. I've only been on one date ever.

I don't know why, but I know it's not my fault. I ask girls and they reject me countless times. I've only had a few female friends in my entire life too. Most girls just don't like me for no reason and I don't think it's anything I'm doing wrong.

Do you think this is normal? I've only met two other guys beside myself and they are the same way, confident, funny, good personality but for whatever reason, none of us can get a girlfriend.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    If you get me enough wool, I'll knit one for you. Any preference on the colour?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Are you unattractive or something?

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  • Shugaboom
    10 years ago

    I'm a even older than you and I have a similar situation. The difference is that I've never invited a girl to a date, so nobody has rejected me... But it is very clear that the problem is me.
    Anyways, keep trying, don't give up, don't let the desesperation wins, and you'll see, somebody will accept you. Good luck!

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Oh look..hey remember me?

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  • ChronicSmoker
    12 years ago

    Its Normal dude trust me. I had one GF my whole life and Im 26yrs old and I am a very good looking, funny, sociable, athletic, entertaining dude. I just had the opposite problems you have. I was extremely shy and wouldn't ask a girl out never the less talk to a girl. That usually makes it hard. Well I know a few others like that. But you got the advantage because you got the confidence to keep at it, you will be successful don't give up! I got better confidence wise but I unfortunately am no longer around girls anymore so take advantage of being in college!! I am a very lonely dude and it sucks trust me. No pussy or love in my life. :(

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  • lillypoppy
    12 years ago

    its normal i didn't have my first bf til i was 20 21 there was nothing wwrong with me i was just a lil shy :) i think you'll meet someone soon enough

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  • Gemini_Man
    12 years ago

    I have exactly the same problam.

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  • Fimpzilla
    12 years ago

    Yeah its probably normal, especially if you're not very confident or anxious or trying too hard..

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  • rexdarling
    12 years ago

    It's pretty normal. Put yourself out there. Be pleasant and thoughtful. Also, take care of your appearance. Hold yourself to the same standards that you expect your partner to have.

    Just have fun. It's cliche, but too often true that when you're not desperately searching for someone, somebody amazing will come along.

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  • stonecutters93
    12 years ago

    Contrary to what some people think I believe it's normal. I'm 23 and I've only ever had one girlfriend, and that relationship barely made it past 2 months. Don't worry too much about it, enjoy life while you're young. Someone will come along when you least expect it.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    You should maybe think of switching to guys. They're much more hornier, easier and will do just about anything when they have a wee bit of alcohol or drugs in them.

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