Is it normal that i've never had a girlfriend and i'm 22 years old?

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I'm a 22 year old straight male, who has never had a girlfriend, never had sex. I've never even had the random homecoming or prom date. I've never been kissed or been intimately involved with a girl in any way.

It's not my fault at all. I've asked out girls, tried to get with them, and every single time it's a rejection. I'm not even lucky enough to be "friend-zoned", as they won't even be friends with me. I'm in college and my luck hasn't changed since High School. I think the problem is the women. They are narrow minded these days, and get offended when a guy approaches a girl.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Maybe it is you and you just don't see it?

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    • Redsfan192
      11 years ago

      No, it's not me. If it was something I was doing, I WOULD see it.

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      • Terence_the_viking
        11 years ago

        No you wont people on the outside see something that you don't.

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  • murkmurder
    8 years ago

    Wow Redsfan192... after reading some of your comments I kind of feel sorry for you.

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    • (s)aint
      8 years ago

      Let's hope he still has not got laid.

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    Lol really man? You're going to blame women just because YOU can't get laid? No wonder they don't want to be with you. They can just feel you. Feel your negativity towards them. Stop being conceited and thinking there is something wrong with them. It's you buddy. I never had a problem with women. None of my friends have. You just have to know how to get their hearts.

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    • Redsfan192
      11 years ago

      You can't "feel" negativity, don't give me that psychic bullshit. Actually, it is the woman's fault. If you haven't had a problem with women, then you're most likely a loser, because girls like to date losers.

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      • Energy
        11 years ago

        Haha. Silly kid, it's not psychic. Energy is all around us. It's called "Science".

        No, it's not the woman's fault. I've never heard any guy say that outside of the internet. It's a very ignorant thing to say that it's their fault. You sound like you've been bullied by them a lot.

        Hmm, a loser, eh? Well, sounds like you've been called that plenty of times! You've got it all wrong buddy and you're in denial. A loser would be someone like you. Someone who can't get a girl to like him. Someone who comes on to the internet to bitch about it.

        Well, all I can say is enjoy your lonely life.

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        • Redsfan192
          11 years ago

          It doesn't matter what you say, it's not my fault and there is no thing you can do to prove me otherwise.

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          • Energy
            11 years ago

            Well, it doesn't matter what you say, because that's only your opinion. I don't hear men bitch about it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Dude dont get one. They are so annoying

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    • Redsfan192
      11 years ago

      I can see your point of view but I really do want to have sex....so bad lol.

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      • EAT_IT
        11 years ago

        Go to Amsterdam ;)

        The food is great.

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  • EAT_IT
    11 years ago

    Be super confident and always eat healthy :)

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    In real life I come across as well spoken and sophisticated however when on a night out with the intention of shagging you have to be really confident, a little bit cocky and very upfront. Try telling a girl (preferably drunk) she is coming home with you and you are going to fuck her and that you would like it if she can bring her friend as well. The over confidence usually works as long as you have good looks and a decent body to back it up. Girls are not interested in a well spoken person when they are out, they just want to have some fun.

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    • Redsfan192
      11 years ago

      I'm very confident and that's another problem. Girls prefer "Beta" men these days, guys with no self-esteem or confidence, because they like to control them with their feminist way.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Maybe it has something to do with the fact that most college aged girls these days are lesbians.

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    • Redsfan192
      11 years ago

      This is a very ignorant statement. With ANY age, straight girls heavily outnumber Lesbians. I've only known a handful of Lesbians in college.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    I'm a few years younger than you and I haven't dated a single soul nor had sex. I have kissed someone before, when I was younger, and it'll go down as one of the worst kisses in the history of man. Try reading a book on body language. That might help.

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    • Redsfan192
      11 years ago

      I don't think body language has anything to do with it.

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  • Thatguy777
    11 years ago

    I'm in the same boat as you. I recently told this girl how I truly felt about her, and now she doesn't even want to be friends with me. We were really close too. I'm honestly still pretty depressed about all of it. Don't ever fall in love. It just ruins your life unless you're lucky enough for it to work out....seriously it will ruin you. You won't be able to think about anything else...

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    • Redsfan192
      11 years ago

      I never have really "fell in love" but it does suck getting rejected every single time.

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  • inhibitor
    11 years ago

    You can't sit here and blame every single woman that you've come across. I suggest maybe when a woman does reject you, ask her the reasoning behind it.

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    • Redsfan192
      11 years ago

      Well, here I am, sitting here and blaming every single woman I've came across. As a matter of fact, I HAVE asked the reason why a girl has rejected me. Every single time, they have told me "You're not my type." I find that to be a lame excuse.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    "Guys it's not that I'm doing something wrong

    It's just that everyone else can't seem do it right"

    People can justify anything. Unfortunately you're doing something wrong but what it is I can't say as you won't even recognize that there's a problem to begin with.

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    • Redsfan192
      11 years ago

      No, I'm not doing anything wrong. Not ONE thing wrong. The women are in the wrong here, as most of them have this stuck up, feminist way of thinking.

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  • Erik963
    11 years ago

    Dont worry about girls. I believe that wrong thing you did is that you asked the wrong one, there has to be a girl that will actualy like you. Relax and stop trying, it will come.

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  • Short4Words
    11 years ago

    Maybe you are too eager, or have the wrong intentions. Just be yourself and maybe someone well approach you.

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    • Redsfan192
      11 years ago

      I am an eager person but my intentions are usually good. I'm always myself, I have always stood against posers and people who try to impress other people. Unfortunately, only ONE girl in my entire life has approached me. I was on my break at work and it was the last ten minutes of my shift, and I rushed too much and forgot to get her number. I did get her first name but I still can't find her on Facebook. My luck sucks.

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