Is it normal that i've never given head?

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Okay so I'm a girl that's into Hondas (cars) and at an event is how I met this guy I talk too. I already kind of knew him because we have mutual friends and he also lives down the street from me so one day we are hanging out and we just start kissing and it led to sex, so after a month we build this really good bond (it was almost like a relationship without the title) and after my 19th birthday he kept asking me to suck his dick but I told him I've never done it before and he would keep asking me to do it .. We even got into an argument about it, right now I'm on vacation and we still keep in contact but I don't know what to do. He even confessed to me that for the whole 2 months we didn't talk he never had sex with anyone else .. I've only been with my ex boyfriend and now this guy I talk to should I just get over it and give him head or just wait?

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reminiscent

9 years ago

Well you should never feel pressured into a situation.

If you are uncomfortable with it then wait...
you can get some information tips and maybe watch a few videos of it being done if you are unsure you will do a good job.

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disthing

9 years ago

"Okay so I'm a girl that's into Hondas (cars) and at an event is how I met this guy I talk too."

I'm still trying to get my HEAD around that first sentence.

Get it?

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- Chanel_eastcoast
  
  9 years ago
  
  How so?
  
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  - disthing
    
    9 years ago
    
    It's pretty horrible grammar-wise, so I thought I'd give you a HEADs up so you can get aHEAD in your English language skills.
    
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    - charli.m
      
      9 years ago
      
      I just didn't see the damn relevance. Or am I just not aware that only Honda girls are permitted/expected to give head?
      
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      - disthing
        
        9 years ago
        
        I'm guessing she meant she WENT DOWN ON a weekend to a Honda event and that's how she met the guy with the dick she won't suck.
        
        But all the extra context was unnecessary. Some people just love to talk. A willy in the mouth would shut 'em up.
        
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        charli.m
        
        9 years ago
        
        On flop?
        
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missy911

9 years ago

Contrary to what men believe and what young women may perceive, most women do not perform head for guys that they do not have a LTR with.

A) You do not have to do it and by not doing it you will be amongst the overwhelming majority of women. They have found out that they don't like doing it or only do it rarely for the significant other or who are totally grossed out by the thought of doing it.

B) You barely know this guy as anything other than, 1) a guy who sounds like he is either looking to put a notch in his belt, 2) brag to his friends that you gave him head, 3) hoping he can finally convince a girl to give him head for the first time, because all his friends are bragging/lying about how much head they get or he really just wants you to be his slutty FWB.

C) If you are even willing to consider discussing the possibility with him; he should understand that you are not going to do it, unless he is wearing a condom. Any illusions he may harbor of you doing a porn scene blow job are not happening. No cumming in your mouth, no swallowing, no taking it in the face.

D) If you do decide to give it a go and give him a blow job, he needs to agree that you are in charge, you can stop whenever you choose, you will not be deep throating, he cannot face fuck you, no hands on your head and that you will have a girlfriend in the other room just in case things get out of hand.

Real couples, who get experimental in their sex play negotiate the rules all the time. If he becomes whiney and thinks you are being a fucking pain, then this guy is a total loser.

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deepthought33

9 years ago

Sad if he is being as pushy as you make it seem. Has he gone down on you yet? You're gonna end up doing it sooner or later so...

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- Chanel_eastcoast
  
  9 years ago
  
  Yes he's done it plenty of times it's just I'm not sure how to do it, of if I'll do a good job this is why I don't want to do it
  
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  - deepthought33
    
    9 years ago
    
    Right, so...you're just going to NEVER learn? lol. Relax. It's not a big deal and he can tell you what he likes and you can pick up some fun tips here and there.
    
    Also, I must comment on your response to green_boogers and your concern with him thinking you've had other partners. So, which is it, you want to be good, but not TOO good? Talk to him. Do you think you need to do this with no valuable communication? If he trusts you than it won't be a problem. If you're concerned explore this new thing WITH him. And to be quite frank, who cares if you HAD had another partner before him? Practice on him and if he is a jerk, dump him and used your experience on a more deserving penis.
    
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    - Chanel_eastcoast
      
      9 years ago
      
      It's just I'm a very shy person like it took a long time for us to even have sex, I'm very self conscious and I get scared with trying things so this is why I'm scared to even try
      
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LIGHTHOUSE

9 years ago

If you don't like it then don't it. No one can be forced to do against his/her will especially in sex. He wants to abuse you. If he really loves you he can understand your nausea for giving heads. There are lots of other sexual activities apart from blowjobs which you can do consensually. But yet if he insists then break the bond with him. There are lots of people who can be satisfied sexually without receiving blowjob. My best wishes are with u.

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VirgilManly

9 years ago

Would it make you feel better if I let you practice on me?

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RainbowDischarge

9 years ago

Why are you hesitant to give him head? If its because you havent done it before, Id say do it. Theres a first for everything. And if you dont like it then now you know. Might as well suck his since you already have sex with him and like him. But if you really dont want to then dont. You dont have to do anything you dont want to. He shouldnt keep pestering you about it. Ask him if you can buttfuck him.

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- Chanel_eastcoast
  
  9 years ago
  
  I will think of you when I ask him this lmao jk
  
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mlbryan44

9 years ago

Suck the guy off if he is cut. If he in uncircumcised then don't. Uncut is disgusting.

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MenschMaschine

9 years ago

What Honda's are you into???? I use to have an Accord Type R (UK spec) and a Prelude 2.2vti Motegi edition. Loved them both.. vtec vtec!!

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sexysonofsam

9 years ago

What seems to be the problem here, you like Honda`s he likes head...fuck it or suck it, in the end it is all up to you!

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Holzman_67

9 years ago

balls will drop one day

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RoseIsabella

9 years ago

If you really and truly don't want to give him oral sex then don't do it. If he performs oral sex on you then I would encourage you to return the favor.

If you want to go down on him but you're afraid research the topic of fellatio and practice on a banana or a hot dog.

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green_boogers

9 years ago

Be sure to go to YouTube.com and search for "How to give oral sex". There are very few women that do it right. But if you learn the right techniques you will be a sexual angel.

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- Chanel_eastcoast
  
  9 years ago
  
  Yea but what if I learn how to do it and then he thinks I've done to someone else and that's how I "learned" .. I don't want him to think I've had sexual relations with someone else
  
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  - green_boogers
    
    9 years ago
    
    Tell him that you watched an online video. He should be able to handle the truth.
    
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9 years ago

Give him head what are you waiting for

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