Is it normal that i've never ejaculted (i'm 17)?

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I am 17 year old straight guy and I think i'm reaching the end of puberty. I can definetly get turned on and can get an erection pretty well, but I have never ejaculated or had an orgasm awake in my life. I get wet dreams a lot, and I guess that's because I never ejaculate when awake. I have tried to masturbate before but it never worked, and I know you probably won't believe me when I say this but it's true: I don't masturbate. I don't because as I said it never worked and I kind of just gave up trying. I feel really abnormal because of the fact that I never masturbate and I feel like I'm missing out on something really cool that everyone else does. I haven't told anyone this because obviously its an embarassing question and they probably wouldn't believe me if I told them I don't masturbate. I hav never been in a relationship so it's not a problem now but if I do get into one then it would become a big problem so if you can help please write a serious answer! Btw, I think I am pretty healthy, I get an average amount of exercise and I eat okay- I try to eat a balanced diet but I do eat a bit of junk food. I don't feel sick or anything, I feel completely normal other than this. Also, I am not on any prescriptions meds.

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  • Short4Words
    11 years ago

    I'll tell you what. It's nothing special. You end up feeling terrible a lot of the time. I'm fed up with it really. It makes you look at woman differently. You just become shallow. I think you're better off. If you are having wet dreams (I don't think I ever did) often, then you aren't unhealthy.

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  • drugsrbadmkay
    11 years ago

    It may not matter now but someday you might want to have kids, so you should see a doctor.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    You sound like a totally normal healthy guy to me. Most girls you date aren't going to be like the stereotypes. It's not all about penis size and how good you are in bed. It is on this SITE, but not in the real world. If you're worried about getting in a relationship and this being a problem, it likely won't. You say you get hard, so you can atleast please her right? And you won't know that sex doesn't do it until you try. Not masturbating is not that bad. I'm sure at one point in time you would be the weird one if you admitted to doing it all the time lol I also think alot of girls would find it a turn on that you don't look at it. Once again, not the ladies you'll read about on this site xP Just live your life! You're fine :)

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