Is it normal that i've never connected with any girl?

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I'm 25 years old and have never been able to connect with a girl. There has always seemed to be mutual attraction, noticeable to other people, but every time I've made a move I've been promptly shot down. I am respectful of women like I was raised. I've tried online dating; no luck. I am tired of hearing how great of a boyfriend I would be. I've never kissed a girl, not even held one's hand. My loneliness hurts me deeply, it has started to shake my faith in God. Is this normal? Shouldn't I have met SOMEONE by now? I don't know what else to do.

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Based on 47 votes (24 yes)
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  • Wonderlost
    12 years ago

    Don't lose faith.

    God has his plans for you, just have patience. Maybe he has a girl JUST for you.

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  • Azo9339
    12 years ago

    its a hard time to meet girls now a days because there is so much tension between the opposite sex. You really need to get out and have the courage to talk to girls, the more you do it the less painful it is, and who knows you might find the right girl.

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  • PumpkinKate
    12 years ago

    I think it's pretty normal... girls are drawn to confidence, even a small bit of aggression. We're evolutionarily programmed to go for the "alpha male" because he's a good mate and can best ensure the healthy continuation of our species. Being a "nice guy" that would "make a great boyfriend" will be AMAZING!!!! once you're in a relationship. Trust me, it will take you far. That being said, it's difficult to attract a girl without confidence.

    If it makes you lose your faith in God, however, all the better :P

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    • PumpkinKate
      12 years ago

      Actually that last comment was mean. Sorry :(

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  • troubledmind
    12 years ago

    maybe you have not meet the right girl you should never lose faith in God he will guide you to your love and it will be a perfect match for you i know how you feel i truly do i am 23 and have never been in love with anyone i feel the same pain that you do you are not alone God has a wonderful woman waiting for you out there somewhere ask God to lead you to her she is waiting

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Try being assertive.

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  • Scarecr0w
    12 years ago

    FOREVER ALONE

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Maybe you're meant to be gay?

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  • elpuser
    12 years ago

    Yea you're just gay, come out the closet PLZ!

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