Is it normal that i've had a one night stand at 18?

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I am 18 this year and I have had a one night stand. I was out at a club and the guy was actually really nice and we went to his hotel. He was only in me for a short amount of time, though, because he couldn't keep it up (he was too drunk).

My question is: is it normal that I've had a one night stand this young?

PS. I did it completely of my own free will, but it was only the second time ever that I've had sex.

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  • Mastersofthecraft
    10 years ago

    SEX With a lustful friend. Only for one night. Hey whatever turns you on buddy. I prefer to get to know them frist and go out and maybe have sex.

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    • curvyblonde95
      10 years ago

      Honestly, I prefer that too, but in the moment that was what felt right..

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  • randypete
    10 years ago

    i had a one night stand at 13 it no big deal

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  • juliaaa
    10 years ago

    I had a one night stand at 14. 18 is very normal.

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    • curvyblonde95
      10 years ago

      That does make me feel beeter :)

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  • kelili
    10 years ago

    It's very normal.

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    • curvyblonde95
      10 years ago

      thanks! I'm glad to hear that :D

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  • ThatChick28
    10 years ago

    Had a 1 night stand when I was 13, no worries lol

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    10 years ago

    When I was coming to the end of being 18, I must have had about seven one night stands, maybe more.

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    • curvyblonde95
      10 years ago

      it helps a lot to hear that all of you guys have already had ons, because at least then I don't have to question my morality :)

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  • KaffeInjection
    10 years ago

    Full blown AIDS!

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    • curvyblonde95
      10 years ago

      haha, no, we obviously used a condom the whole time. :)

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  • Darkoil
    10 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with a one night stand. Some of my best sex has been one night stands.

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    • nkwacky
      10 years ago

      Same here

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    It's odder that it was only your second time. By the time I was 18 I think I'd been with atleast 5 or 6 people. To each their own though. As long as you are happy! You are meant to be free and sexually experiment while you are young.

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  • White___October
    10 years ago

    That's very normal, I'm younger than you and I've had several one night stands already.

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  • sweetysh
    10 years ago

    yeah its normal my first tym was 18 too

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Normal. My first time was a ONS and a threesome at that. I was 19.

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  • Approsoft9136
    10 years ago

    Definately, u r 18, law does not give a fuck bout it, so why r u? Aahh just chill, completely normal :)

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    • curvyblonde95
      10 years ago

      Thanks! and yeah i guess so! :)

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  • bemah
    10 years ago

    How about 13. Would you call that young!

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    • curvyblonde95
      10 years ago

      yeah haha :)

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  • ozzyy18
    10 years ago

    Its normal, Be young wild & free c:

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    • curvyblonde95
      10 years ago

      I do like to be young, wild and free... :D

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  • sickonine
    10 years ago

    Yes, you're an adult. Wtf is this question about.

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  • randypete
    10 years ago

    It's very normal you are only 18 go and have some fun

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  • kit291
    10 years ago

    if you regret it then don't do it again if you liked it then it's not really a problem. quite a few people have a one night stand. just be grateful he didn't finish in you lol i was young then 18 but i only did it with girls. so just try and move on from it.

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    • curvyblonde95
      10 years ago

      It was okay, the only reason I kind of didn't like it was because he wasn't a very good fuck :P But other than that I don't regret it or anything! Thanks for the advice :)

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  • BlueAlice
    10 years ago

    I was 19 when I had my first ONS and in my first year of university. If it felt right at the time, it felt right.

    I sometimes find ONSs more fun than more socailly accepted sex i.e. in a monogamous relationship

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    • curvyblonde95
      10 years ago

      Yeah, I mean I don't regret it or anything so yeah :) thanks! :)

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  • CheyChey
    10 years ago

    Everything is wrong with one night stands don't mean to be judgy but that's my opinion. I prefer a sex in a committed exclusive relationship call me old fashioned. One night stands are too risky.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Most people I know had several by that age, some many more.

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    • curvyblonde95
      10 years ago

      Really? Well when I think about it, a lot of people in my home country actually do have a lot of one night stands too.. But in the country I live in now, there is not that much!

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        In Australian culture you just have sex as soon as you can/feel like it, then whatever you do is your business.

        The average age that most start "having sex" is like 14-16, so many have done alot by 18. By 18 I was living with a girlfriend whom I met through having a one night stand.

        Australians are very relaxed when it comes to underage sex and drinking, it's very common.

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  • Bigtruck
    10 years ago

    I had 6 one night stands when I was 18

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    • curvyblonde95
      10 years ago

      Well if you're a guy then that's usually more accepted..?

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      • Bigtruck
        10 years ago

        For every guy there must be a girl ! It's just fine. Prolly happens more when your in your 20s but why not have fun. Only young once

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