Is it normal that i used to have sex but now i dont?

PLEASE READ!!! what's happening is that you're geting sick and tired of seeing the world and people for what they are. everybody idolizes sex and glorifies immorality to the degree of being absurd and unhealthy and even inconsiderate and cold!!you're sick of seeing such things occur 24/7 ///period.

there's an answer...a solution..find others who also see these things and hang with them and you'll find that the fact that they see the same things you see and are equally as bent out of shape,will calm your mind and you'll feel as though you have something in common with someone again/.

I'm exactly in your situation. I used to hang with lots of girls and all. until 2 years ago something happened to me. I started to look for deeper meaning to it all.

I think it's normal. your mind is telling you what you really want. not what the majority of people (around you) expect you to want.

I've been the same way for four years. I'm happier alone in many ways. I feel like I'm living in a different reality than most of the world. I see things for how they are; my eyes have been cleared and now I know truth but also I feel most of the world is happy with the gunk on their eyes. I'm less depressed but lonely sometimes for all this but truth in solitude is better than company in lies.

The dame thing happens to me, but instead of hating them I fell petty, it's not their fault to be so empty. So what I do after a few dates I let them know how I see life... Mostrar of the time they are amazed by my philosophy ... Its your choice to hate them or love em

mtnw(38583) hit the nail on the head earlier..."your growing up" into somebody more mature only you wont notice it happening, only when you look back in time will you see that it "hapened".(or at least thats how it was with me)..Think of it as a second puberty, only this time you have choices.!!lol

I completely understand what your saying, and I consider myself in a similar situation. There really are so many people out there who are just sucked into that void of unimportant crap in life. But yeah I'd have to agree with meow_ mum and say your probably figuring out a new side of yourself and what you really want in life. That's what i feel like is going on for me, so maybe it's the same.

you are thinking with your big head instead of your little head. you're growing up!

Everyone in this world is selfish, males need a fuck and females need to give that for some kind emotional give and take and some one who will listen to their talk talk!!! The question remains who is a looser. and everyone realizes once he or she finds someone giving more in same efforts. that is true selfishness.
And it changes with AGE.

Yes I'm a female with the same issue,
I made terrible mistakes while young trying to fit in i'm 25 now and my wakeup call was once my life was straight I had 2 kids and left thier abusive looser dad. I've been single now nearly 2 yrs and feel the same exept I don't feel I'm loosing touch I just feel sad that so many men in this world ( and women) are fake etc . Don't get me wrong I don't think I'm perfect and I'm not a troll I have alot of offers but no one seems worthwhile so I think your maybe just loving yourself more and coming to terms with finding urself so your more perseptive to others insecurities etc

I understand what your saying. I find the women today don't understand the world and there existence. I've been lucky my girlfriend is intellegent enough to NOT fall into the world of advertised lifestyles. I would try looking for a local Zeitgeist Movement group. There are some very realistic people there.

This worlds all about making up an illusion and sticking with it, see how unhappy you are not living in denial? sucks right?. Go back to the way you were and find temporary happiness, permanent is almost nonexistent. Love isn't real so stop looking for anything more than cheap sex and get back in the game