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Alright so i like this girl but i dunno if she likes me, i am friends with her on many social medias but i don't always use my real name and stuff like that, i pretend to be someone else and then talk to her. is that creepy and weird?
Yes, in my opinion it is creepy and weird, and also disrespectful of her, but understandable for an insecure teen. I don't think you should keep this up, though. How would you feel if people interested in you used the same approach? You might actually start to have some interest on the person, just to find out they are a different individual who has been lying all the time about who they really are. I don’t think that would be a nice feeling, so I really recommend you to muster up the courage and be yourself. If she is not interested, so be it, there are other girls around, and if somehow one of these girls publicized their experience with your fake accounts, this could really affect your reputation where you live.
I disagree. Much constructive social knowledge can be learned about people by listening to their responses to people in group discussions. By filling the gaps with a couple of well defined alternate personalities, you can confirm this girl's sensitivities to determine if you are comfortable with them in advance. Time well spent to avoid disappointment for both of you if either of you is not a match.
For example, I'm an INTJ. You, my wise owl, seem like an ESTJ. You might not like the way my intuition evaluates the distribution of data that's part of the premise of a well thought syllogism. I'll never know until I have a control type observation to serve as a basis for comparison. So, I have an alt hit you with a "S" comment. Test complete.
Your go. Hit me with your best shot. I'm anticipating good things. :-)
Just remember that you shouldn't hassle a girl to like you. If she just wants to be friends then back off. She will know that you like her so if she is not hanging around you all the time and responding to all of your messages (when she knows it's you) then she wants you to stop hassling her. On the bright side, girls often change their minds about a guy once he stops hassling her and looks like he is no longer that interested. So stop messaging her and move on. She may change her mind but she may not, either way, you've done yourself a favour.
I think you should try to consider how she would feel if she found out that you are doing this. It is a bit like stalking, it isn't honest. I can completely understand that you want to get closer to her and get to know her better but you shouldn't do it like this. If she is not interested in any more than what you have already then walk away, anything else is actually disrespectful. Ask her to the movies, if she says no, or makes an excuse then you have your answer and you must accept it. There will be other girls and other women, I promise.
I would say that you are a respectful person naturally, mainly because you asked this question and are thinking about what you are doing. Someone who didn't care probably wouldn't ask.
You'll regret it when you slip up and say something to her on your normal account that was talked about on a fake account :P
Sadly, it’s probably normal. Is it healthy? Not particularly. Just be yourself. You’ll never be happy otherwise.
Everyone does that , you might be texting someone who is pretending to be her