Is it normal that i underestimate friendships with certain people?

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Sometimes i'll get really close to a person, have a lot of fun chats and stuff like that, only to more or less "forget" about them later.. Anybody else ever feel like they've done something like this? (not on purpose!!)

If there was a comfort level, like, let's say between 0-10 (0 being a complete stranger and 10 being bff/family), sometimes i feel like i get to a 7 or something with a friend, but when i meet them again i kinda "forget" the "comfort level progress" and i start at 3 again or so...

What made me realise this is getting invited to a friends party, while that person referred to me as one of his closest friends!

So yeah... i'm curious if anybody else has had similar experiences, thanks for your feedback! (any help to avoid doing this would be fun to read too...)

PS: its not like i cant make friends or anything like that, there are a couple of friends i consider as close as my family, this just happens every once in a while

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  • Dread-pool
    8 years ago

    yeah, my memory is so destroyed lately i keep forgetting people exist that i just spoke to recently.

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