Is it normal that i try to please my gf without her appricating it?

u need to stop and let her earn your kindness...ur being too easy...nothing is valued if you dont have to work for it

Basic humility and courtesy goes out the window if she's a "material girl". She enjoys what you buy I'm guessing? So, she's jaded to having so much when others have so little - Mark one. Mark two - She doesn't consider the expense nor refuse you buying these things for her. (Doesn't put up a fight) "No, that's too much!" ?

I'm just projecting a spoiled brat syndrome back to you. Dear text on a screen.

Either she is taking advantage of you or she's like my ex... My ex could get anything she ever wanted and couldn't even crack a smile... The only way I could get her to smile for the camera is to say something really funny or tickle her... But it sounds like your girl really doesn't appreciate what you do for her...

I know girls that are like this because they need the ego boost. THEY ADMITTED IT. It was because of meeting girls like this I have kind of become bias towards my own sex. Also, you don't want to rollover on everything. You will give her completely the upper hand.

Maybe YOUR the problem. Maybe it's
because your attracted to women who treat you like shit or just aren't that interested in you. If that's the case, then I think you have big issues and need to quit acting like a little girl and have some self esteem. Or, in three words: Be a man

Maybe shes just shy...or she doesnt want to be with you. Sorry :/

maybe coz she's a shy gal

Its slightly creepy to continuously ask someone if they love you, but it really just sounds like you are taking it too fast. If she isn't a gold digger she probably would have left you by now. Easy (and painful) way to find out is to be less generous.

She's using you. Get it of there before it's too late!

Dump that bitch! Only a few women are worth holding on to and it doesnt sound like she is one of em.

Dude you are being a doormat. Don't let her wipe her feet on you.

I would never let a person buy me so much without me actually giving the same amount in return, or at least attempting to give the same in return. She sounds ungrateful. Are you still with her? I hope you aren't.

I wish i was your girlfriend, i would appreciate so much your kindness..:)...She should do things for you too, let her suffer and let her earn what you give her..

What's great about her personality if she HATES YOU?

She's not a golddigger at all, I think you need to tell her straight up that you love her instead doing all these things for her, you should show your love for her in another way... kay? Kay.

Gold diggers have a way of giving you just enough to keep your wallet open. You said that she has been with tons of guys..geez there goes the notion that she's a shy virgin...she probably has guys that buy her stuff and guys that she has sex with. It's called an escort here in the usa... You said that she has a great personality that's because she has perfected the art of telling men what they want to hear..it's part of staying in your pocket. Get serious man you answered your own question when you told us that she said ya'll are like will & grace....uhhhmm Will is gay and they will never be a couple...get over it. She is a user a manipulator that makes you feel as if you should feel lucky just be be in her shadow...Get a real girlfriend and tell her to go lay up on her neck somewhere..

by "paying for everything" you arn't actually pleasing her in the way you want to please her...

i didnt mention that whenever i ask her if she loves me she says that she dosn't know or that we should be friends,but still we makeout?!? What should i do please help !! Oh and she say shes a virgin but she has a navel piercing so that is wierd,shes 19 btw,help me please!

instead of spending so much money on her, do things with her that don't cost anything. stay at home and watch a movie. cook dinner together.

If there's nothing there then there's nothing there.

i would have ditched if i was you,beautiful or not but you evidently love her...So,try talking to her about it..she can't be shy if she's dated lots of guys b4 but maybe she expects not material things from you but other things like compliments or any other such rubbish

Not nearly enough information to judge.

She could be a gold digger who is taking you for everything you've got.

Or she could just not be impressed by money and want something more personal.

Try to stop spending money and show your affection other ways, if she likes this, problem solved.
If she gets annoyed you aren't spending money then she probably is a gold digger, and you should ditch her, because she doesn't even appreciate all the good you do for her and therefore she doesn't appreciate YOU.
It might even be for her own good that you break up so you can both move on find someone to have a loving reciprocal relationship with.