Is it normal that i try my hardest to be friends with my ex

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My Ex and I had a very bad break-up, don't ask details, it was not pretty. Our relationship lasted about a year and a half.. It pretty much consisted of us arguing, bickering, and yelling very inappropriate words.. And dirty things.. It made her happy, so we did lots of things that I don't really approve myself of doing now..

Now we're older and I want to be friends with her again.. We got along great.. I don't want to be enemies anymore.. I think it's childish and foolish that were fighting..

Is it normal that I want to be friends again..? Please comment and tell me how I should try to become friends with her again..

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Let it go - you don't need her as a friend. If she felt she needed you, she'd have made that move.

    Just say hello if you pass in the street.
    That boat has sailed. Move on.

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  • stonecutters93
    12 years ago

    If you really want to be friends with her again, initiate some contact and ask if you can put the past behind you and start over. Remind her that you were once friends and that's what you would like again. But if it's not what she wants, then at least you can say you tried, then it's time to forget about her and move on.

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  • equanimity
    12 years ago

    Of course, if you share history.

    Just don't repeat it, if you know what I mean.

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  • hoping4best
    12 years ago

    The important thing is to be at peace with yourself. So if you think that by trying to make things better between you and your ex, you can like yourself better, then i'd say go for it :) well, if she doesnt want so then atleast you wont have the regret of not trying.

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  • ChasingAfterPond<3
    12 years ago

    You're being responsible and the better one for trying to move past all that happened,so i give you props for that, but if that is what she did to you while you were dating, what kind of games will she try to play with you just being a friend? I think you should let it go and just stop talking to her.

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    why the fck you care? i would have never talk to her again, ever.

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