Is it normal that i treat everyone like my ex treated me?

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My ex was always nice to me, but one day everything we had fell apart. We were always on and off, but one day when he left me for another gal, I knew it was over for good. Now, I don't love him anymore, but every time I get into a relationship I act like the little bitch, and hurt others who I'm trying to love. I know it's wrong but I can't help it. I hate that I act like I don't care. I was never like him and think that I've transformed in hurt. Is it normal to even miss him after 2 years?.. Or to even shed a tear for a person who won't even remember you. A person you hate and consider an enemy now?

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Based on 39 votes (21 yes)
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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    Being cheated on for the first time changed me as a person and the person I was with straight after that suffered because of it. So, yes, what our partners do to us affects how we treat our future partners. I still think I'm a bad boyfriend because of a relationship that ended years ago. Although slowly getting better.

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  • TheArBuilder
    9 years ago

    He cheated on you. That's hard. Don't get in any new relationships or dates before you got over it a 100%

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  • gashlover
    9 years ago

    By doing this, you are perpetuating your own bad karma and you will never, ever find happiness. Time to wake up, gf

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  • flamethrower1
    10 years ago

    Yep normal it usually does influence the way you are in the future

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  • shakalaka
    11 years ago

    My ex treated me so bad and that influence me. I was a bad girlfriend in the next relationship after that. But now I'm moving on and trying to do my best for my boyfriend.

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