Is it normal that i think women care about looks as much as men?
This is not a shallow question. When you meet someone the first time you make instant judgements of that person. The only thing you can infer in the first 10 seconds is how he/she looks. We all have a type and guys often forget that she’s looking at us the same way we do to her, physically speaking. Love at first sight is real and you don’t even know their personality.
If you’re getting turned down after approaching a girl within 2-3 minutes of meeting her, more than likely you’re not “her type”. Think about it, you had the confidence to walk up and start talking. She’s polite but thinks “he’s not my type” and has no lustful thoughts.
I think a lot of pretty girls who date unattractive guys have low self esteem because they think they don’t deserve a good looking man, partly due to coming from a broken family or other bad experiences. Plus, I’ve noticed a lot of white girls who date black or Asian guys tend to have liberal political views because they resent conservatives and see white males as part of the problem.
We all understand that although personality is important long-term, attraction needs to occur. Kindness, honesty and respect are excellent, but it doesn’t attract alone. Good looks together with all those qualities seals the deal.