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i dont really want it and it dosnt seem all that special to me. but if i lose it before i'm married my mom will flip
Like old saying,"You don't realize what's important untill you lose it."
Lose your virginity to someone you in love with not some douche bags out on a street to make it look cliche.
how long are you going to live for your parents before you start living for yourself....
Omg, I feel the same way. It just has reached a point where I am sick of being a virgin, but still I am not going to lose my virginity to some creep. Wait for a guy who loves you!
This depends on how old you are. If you are old enough does your mon really have to know? Does she tell you everytime she has sex?
To be honest, I used to think something similar. To just do it and get it out of the way. No meaning, no nothing. Not doing that was an amazing decision.
I feel the same way, it sucks not knowing what your missing, but defenatly wait to do it with someone you love, and if you dont want kids use protection ;-)
if you are a female its normal you can wait until marriage and thats it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yes , it is a burden but so is a unwanted baby and no partner thier to help think about that dear .
I FEEL THE SAME FREAKIN WAY!! All these guys I wanna do somethin to but I just can't because my mom and dad would punish me for the rest of my life (this is no joke and no exaggeration)!!! All the fine boys in the world I'm missing out on!! *daydreaming about one of them* WOOOO! All the fine boys in the world! There's this one guy I had a dream about doin it to... I wish it really happened. It's nice to know somebody else feels this way!!
Thats why I lost mine...but it s true that you dont know its important until you lose it. but honestly, its a personal decision that you shouldnt let your mom make for you!! not saying you should or shouldnt. but a thought you might wanna have about keeping it.....if you wait, and MAKE LOVE...not fuck...make love with your husband, it will probably be one of thee most amazing feelings you would ever feel and it will be more pleasurable. but also know it might be hard to find a man who is still a virgin as well & you might not feel as good if he takes your virginity but you get nothing in return. theres pros and cons to both sides. good luck!
Well you dont necessarily have to screw some douche bag just to get it out of the way however that being said you also dont have to have sex with a guy you feel you are going to be with forever. Trust me i am a guy and i have seen a lot of girls think they were loosing it to the perfect guy and were crushed after they dumped their sorry asses. However i dont see what the problem is with your mother. Does she have some kinda weird power where she can smell if your hymen is torn or something?
It depends on how old you are for one. You want to be of legal age. Also stop letting people tell you to get on the pill. Getting pregnant is about 10% of what can happen to you. The deseases such as Aides, Warts, Herpes, and about 10 others can be much bigger problems than getting pregnant.
You never answered peoples questions in here, how old are you, that has a lot to do with everyones answers. Also are you in a very up tight religeous family? Do they push thier beliefs on you, but lived a differant life as a child? I grew up Catholic, and premarital sex was forbidden to me. Funny part is it wasn't for all those that told me no. At 16 older women made the chose for me. I have so many older women persue me and i gave in eventually. Sex with older women was great, and i don't feel like im going to hell for it. They taught me a lot and made me a better lover today :)
Don't rush into anything, trust me you will be glad you didn't. The vast majority of those saying go ahead and just do it and don't care at all, have no clue what bad advice that really is. Very few people *adults including* have a clue about how sex relates to their own issues in their life. We are brainwashed by society in many ways in this regard and are taught to feel we need to rush into it.
You have your whole life to have tons of sex! There is no rush at all, if you are smart about it you will enjoy it more and find it even more fulfilling without all the excess baggage that most people have in their lives because they rushed into sex as a means of escaping themselves.
So it's totally normal to feel you should lose it quickly and that it doesn't matter, but it's not a healthy attitude at all! Sadly, this is the state of the world right now and very few people have the proper respect for themselves and others and use sex like a drug. Don't be afraid of sex, but don't be afraid of waiting to have sex till you are in a real loving relationship. Get to know yourself and your fears, desires, insecurities first and then you will be ready to handle sex with out all the emotional baggage it creates in most people.
your mum doesnt need to know bout ur sex life, besides theres not much difference between being a virgin and not, its not like ull never be able to have sex again.
Errrs... Get the pill from a free clinic, get a condom who says ur mom has to know?! U think my mom wants me to loose my virginity? Not married have I? Yes.