Is it normal that i think myself as easily hatable?

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I recently noticed that I find it extremely hard to make friends. But can lose them at a word.

Now I'm not saying I'm a complete loner, because I do have my group at school etc that I hang around in, but they're about the only friends I have in school.

And as for outside school? Worse.
I used to chill at a place in our town center where I really thought I fitted in, but my brother went there, and, well, you know what sibling rivalry is like, he managed to get me unliked.

I've been bullied for as long as I can remember, I think it's just because I express myself without worry.

My best friend is the only person that's been there with me through thick, thin, rough, smooth, slippery, dry and everything.
I feel even he's starting to dislike me.

I've asked my friends about it but they say it's everyone else being unfriendly,

But I think I'm just easily hatable.

Please let me know what you think

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  • confusedteen33
    13 years ago

    Your most likely not hateable. I've been in the same situation for a while man. I hung out with a good size group in high school everyday. By my senior year they all stopped communicating with me and even ganged up on me and ragged on me. Except my two best friends of course. I just finished my first year of college and the same thing happened but this time I had no best friends becuase of the new environment. And many may think its me being over dramatic but its not. Its f'#* me up. I am a different person. I have a low self esteem now even though I now act like I'm better than everyone. I don't approach new people because I feel like a boring person. I use to be funny and people use to listen and care about me...your not alone man. Your not alone.

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  • StrangeDuckDude
    13 years ago

    Maybe you're an Aspergoid. (Better hope you're not, it's unfixable.)

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  • BfingIToucher
    13 years ago

    Realizing that you may have some personality traits that are unappealing is not necessarily a bad thing. Then you may be able to make some positive changes. This doesn't mean you don't have good qualities as well. And some bullies are true jackasses who don't deserve your time anyway. Still, you say you think people dislike you because you "say what's on my mind without worry." I am irritated when people say stuff along these lines, like, "I tell it like it is" which translates to: a) "I am always right." and b) "Your feelings don't matter." I believe in honesty and being true to yourself but it is important to understand what the social expectations are in how we interact with others. No one wants to be around a know-it-all (if that's how you are presenting yourself, but I am not sure). I get the feeling that you are unaware of how you cone across to other people. Perhaps you need to have an honest conversation with your best friend about what's going on, or even a counselor. You don't have to go through life unable to begin or maintain relationships. Or.... Maybe you just haven't found the right place for yourself. When you get older you might move away and find more people like you somewhere new.

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  • zchristian
    13 years ago

    the only persons i hate is the once hating others whitout even knowing them

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  • TheOmegaJuggalo
    13 years ago

    Sounds kind of like me. Honestly, it could be a combination of both. I don't have many friends because I hate stupid people, and in high school 99% of the people are stupid. And I'm pretty sure they'll be just as stupid in 10 years. I've gotten to the point where I'm totally fine with my small group of friends.

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  • Ribbit.
    13 years ago

    I guess all you can do is be a nice person right? Try your best to make a good impact on ppl, and no matter what, you don't deserve the hate, you sound like a good person! (:

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  • WACKOJACKO
    12 years ago

    People don't always understand you at first but you've just got to tell them who you are.

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  • timebobbu
    13 years ago

    its not your fault obviously!!!!

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  • SassyFrassyLassie_old
    13 years ago

    Honestly, the only people I've met in my lifetime, that I've truly despised, are people who act like they have, or do have, borderline personality disorders. I don't really know you, but maybe you could look it up and see for yourself.

    Anyway, we should strive to treat others how THEY would like to be treated, not how WE would like to be treated ourselves.

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  • --ash--
    13 years ago

    I don't even know you & I hate you already!

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