Is it normal that i think my wife is cheating on me?
Hi i need advice on the subject, that i think my wife is cheating on me, well here goes, my wife works for a bank, and I've noticed that her manager and her been getting bit close, so i been doing a bit of snooping around and I've checked her phone for messages , and noticed that he sends her very friendly messages, but i didn't think anything of it, until one day there was a bank statement on the kitchen bench, so i looked at it carefully, and i seen that my wife been lending him money, as much as $1500 dollars in a month, so i then went to look at all the other statements and noticed that it happen 4 or 5 times, it seemed it was getting into a bad habit,, then another time i checked her phone and i seen a picture taken from my wife car and she took a picture of a car with a personal number plate with his initials and date of birth ex kev70,and she sms it to him..... well her manager name is kevin and born 1970, so i immediatly thought the wrong thing, so then she had noticed that I've been looking at her phone and she had a go at me, and i had a go at her,and we argues and I've been stressing out that she been having an affair,i know that he lives in sydney, and he comes down to melboune few times a week, and my wife says to me ,,,,i might have to go to sydney for work one of these days, so i stress out even more, is it normal for me to think that she's having an affair? please help