Is it normal that i think my male friend is sexy?

Ohk, so I'm a guy and I believe in straight! Ppl might say or comment that im Bi or Gay but that's your opinions... There's this guy he's also one of my closest friends,,, We get in trouble together etc. He sits next to me in Biology class and sometimes I just look at him and ill be like " ok this guys attractive (sexy)".Sometimes he gives me this look and we stare at eachother, so I break the tension by making a joke and saying " what's your problem huh?" IIN??

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  • archangel

    Guy-guy / girl-girl crushes or admirations are normal. (And if u like em a lil bit more than just a friend, who the f*ck cares..)

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  • beckett

    Why not! don't be afraid of, or try to justify what you really feel to yourself. If you like him that way, more power to you, your honest with yourself. You may get what you want, and I hope you do!

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    • Polyamoury32

      Awesome... Right on... If you are staring in each others eyes see where it goes... He probably/ most likely feels the same way you do! Find out... To be friends then lovers would be awesome!

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  • the-answer-man

    just be honest to yourself.

    if you know your straight, who cares what other ppl think?

    be yourself, and the pplz who accept you, are 90 percent of the time gonna be your true friends.

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  • Of course it's normal, nobody is completely straight or gay anyways. For example, in prisons(both male and female), people's ranks are pretty much determined by who's tough enough to have sex with who, and I'm sure most of them were 'straight' while they were free.

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  • Your thoughts are normal.

    A guy I know and me are fairly close. I think the world of him and indeed I love him. Like you I've found myself staring at him but I would never do anything sexual with him.

    So unless you feel the desire to drop his pants you're normal and very heterosexual!

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  • MercedesBenz

    People tend to like to socialize with others that they find attractive. You do not have to be gay or bisexual to assess or admire the attractiveness of someone of the same sex. It is a natural response and we, as humans, do this involuntarily; that is, judge others' physical appearance.

    So, yes, very normal. You are just recognizing an involuntary habit. We all do it. No need to worry.

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  • chaosdragoon1

    This guy believing he is straight is also an opinion. Lol

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  • Everyone's the arbiter of the universe in their own mind so there's nothing strange in him referring to our posts as "opinions". Everyone views their thoughts as the absolute truth and everyone else has opinions.

    Did you not do meditation today or do you just need a hug?

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  • dappled

    I love the way you refer to us as having "opinions" as if anything we think couldn't ever possibly be true, and you are the universal arbiter of the way the world is.

    Rant aside, it's normal to recognise attractiveness in your own gender. Don't worry about it.

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  • Flammenschwert

    I think it is completely normal. Human beings can feel love towards anyone. Maybe you just love your friend, today we are so withdrawn that we think that friendship and love are mutually exclusive, but that isnt true. Actually, true frindship is one of the purest kinds of love.

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  • kelseyt

    No it's perfectly fine to think someone is "sexy" without "liking" them. It doesn't mean your gay or bi unless you think you are.

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  • strawberrygymnast

    Absolutely normal. People who are straight can feel attracted to the same gender, studies have shown. It doesn't all of a sudden make you gay!

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  • peelover

    nevermind the opinions.

    you cant feel sexual feelings for the same sex and call yourself straght. its not a matter of opinion. its just not whart the word means

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    • beckett

      These people are here for opinions!

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