Is it normal that i think my friend might be a little jealous?

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I'm a girl and I've been close friends with this guy for a little while now. We basically have the same social circle. My friend got into a relationship a few months ago, and since then we havent been spending as much time together as usual. previously we saw eachother nearly every day, we also work together. every weekend we spent doing something, but since he got into a relationship, obviously we dont spend every waking moment with eachother. So i started getting closer to another guy in our social circle, we dont spend nearly as much time together, but we also work together. This friendship with the new guy kinda turned into a little bit more. But now my original friend feels like he's being pushed out? is this normal? why is he feeling like this? and what can i do to try and repair the situation?

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  • Sabaky
    13 years ago

    He probably loves yoou

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  • Curious_George2011
    13 years ago

    i will agree with iceyangel, sounds like this guy has something for you. what about this third person in this triangle? whats his relationship with your friend? just a work colleague. whats his POV on it all

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  • iceyangel13
    13 years ago

    I would definately say that he has feelings for you. I had a friend (who was a guy) and had known him since we were kids, we had grew up together. I never knew that he was attracted to me until I got into a serious relationship with someone else....it kind of awkwardly came out when I blew up on him for being such an ass around my bf...we are still friends now thankfully, hope this works out ok for you.

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  • nuka21
    13 years ago

    yes very mormal,this happens alot when you get close to a guy that you like and he finds a girlfriend,and stops talking to you.but when you do the same back to him he will get upset because he's you'r close guy friend and he will act like a dad with a 14 daughter.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    You could probably repair the situation by asking him if he actually feels the way you suspect he does. Ya know, ask why he's acting the way he's acting. Then explain to him that he's not being replaced, that you guys will always be good friends, etc.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    Its normal. He probably just is so used to being that guy who you always ran too. Now, there is a new guy in that position. And don't be fooled that he has a girlfriend, he might have some hidden feelings for you. Maybe not a lot, but probably a little at least.

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