Is it normal that i think my boyfriend is using me?

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ok so we have been together 6 weeks (his longest relationship) we are both virgins he says he's willing to wait. but he only ever want's to see me when hes horny we have done sexual thing's and stuff. but he doesn't wanna hang out with me like he used to. last time i saw him was friday and i stayed at his all he did was dryhump me and watch tv. it just feels like hes using me to get his own way he doesn't even return the satisfaction half the time. the next day he said. ok u go home i'l see you later tonight. which we didn't. and hes always cheap. he lied to me 1 time about his money he said i only have £10 so i cant buy your cinema ticket then 5 mins later he buys a £15 game. i know im stupid for not saying anything i'm just scared of being alone

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Comments ( 9 )
  • lala85
    12 years ago

    yes its normal but honey...he isnt worth it. I KNOW you are young and sometimes its hard to understand but seriously fuck him...please dont loose your virginity to him, TRUST MEEE you will regret it. I say this with the best intentions

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  • Chillpill
    12 years ago

    lala85 is right: Fuck him, but don't fuck him! lol. From the way you're describing it, you already know exactly what's going on: He doesn't really value and care about you. However, you need to respect yourself enough not to put up with this any longer. Otherwise you'd also be using him in a way. In your case to ward off feelings of loneliness. It takes two to tango...

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  • TareBear20
    12 years ago

    You're story made me laugh so hard. lol @ dryhump!!! HAHAHAHA!!! Anyways.. his hormones are raging right now, and that is probably all he can think about.

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    • stephaybabe
      12 years ago

      yeh but that seem's to be all hes interested in. and hes cheap doesn't buy me anything and lies to me about money T_T

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      • TareBear20
        12 years ago

        Then pay him no mind. There are plenty of other guys who will treat you right. Just gotta put yourself out there :)

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Dump him before he gets the satisfaction of dumping you!!

    You know this guy is no good and yet you make the whole relationship about him. What about you and what you want? You can't be that frightened of being alone! That's just silly coz the good guys can't get near you while this idiot is in the way.

    Get arrogant about yourself and your worth!!

    I went out with a guy when I was 15yo and he said, "I'll meet you in the disco tomorrow night."
    Yeah, that's what he bloody thought!!
    His mistake was the word IN - if he'd wanted me enough, he would've met me outside and paid me in.
    I did go to the disco but left with a different guy :o)

    I bet you're gorgeous but you just don't know it!!

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  • littlelulu1999
    12 years ago

    Your gut instincts are kicking in and telling you this guy is a piece of shit....so start acting on those instincts and kick him to the curb! Cease all contact and move on with your life....plenty of other fish in the sea...you deserve better.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Jerk guys are the worst. Dump him and wait for another who will make you smile.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Dump his ass!!! Right now. Stop reading this and end it.

    This guy is using you; his actions prove that.

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