Is it normal that i think my bestfriend has a crush on my boyfriend?

To be short, I think my bestfriend has a crush on my boyfriend. I am almost 95% sure about this.
She is always talking about him. Laughing at his jokes, always saying how good looking he is, always trying to sit next to him and at every opportunity ( when I and my boyfriend have a misunderstanding) she advices me to dump him, saying:"Maybe it will be the right choice".
Once, she even told me:" If he makes you so sad, give him to me. I guess everyone would be happier".
Also, we watched a film together about a girl which fell in love with her bestfriend's boyfriend. After that film ( never before, only after this film) she has been repeating the same words - " If I would fall in love with my bestfriend's boyfriend I would never show that".
Guys, maybe I'm paranoid?
Or should I really be worried?

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  • Zoroaster

    Depending on how long you two have been friends, I think she is in need of a reality check. This is YOUR boyfriend, not some single mutual friend of hers and yours. It sounds like she is doing some sneaky, conniving shit and pouring poison in your ear. Passive aggressively attempting to have you dump him so she can have her try. My advice is to unfortunately distance yourself from this person (your friend) as soon as possible or risk some serious heartache.

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  • istrawberry

    You can point and laugh in her face "AHAHAH he's mines bitch".

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Why should you worry?

    Just because she has a crush on him does NOT mean he has a crush on her.

    He is not a book that she can just pick up and put in her pocket. She cannot steal him against his will.

    If your relationship is secure then she cannot break it.

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  • Iforegot

    My boy friend dumped me then my ex best friend started having sex :c

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  • IBMelissaG

    He is YOUR Man! It is HIS choice on who to be with. Apparently he wants to be with YOU. That is what you should be focused on. So what if she has a crush on your BF; that just means you have a good guy. Besides, if you told her "OK, we can share, but you only get to give him blowjobs - I get everything else", then she will either freak out, or she'll take your offer (it might just turn out to be a win-win-win situation). Then you will know. Be happy!

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  • RoseIsabella

    Best friend huh? She sounds more like a greedy, selfish little skank. I would distance myself from her. In all honesty you sound quite young and there's a good chance that your current boyfriend is probably not "the one." However, this so called best friend of your sounds like a very toxic person and you're probably better off without her! With friends like her who needs enemies.

    You could confront this chick but my gut tells me she'll just say she's just joking around. So remember what William Shakespeare said, “In jest, there is truth.”

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  • SatanPag

    My best friend has never tried to flirt or steal my boyfriend, but there was a girl who wasn't really my friend but sometimes we would hang out, and SHE started to flirt with my boyfriend. He noticed it too, and we quit talking to her.

    But it pissed me off hugely. She would flip her hair & ask if it [her hair] still looked alright, & she'd laugh at the things he said, and she'd even try to walk on his opposite side, so I'd slow down and wedge myself between her and him which she clearly noticed.
    She even made it very clear that she thought his twin brother was super cute. I almost punched her in the face.
    Watch out.. I was lucky my boyfriend didn't like her, but she wasn't very attractive and had a bad personality.. if the girl you speak of has made it all the way to Best Friend status, she may have a higher chance of ruining your relationship if she decides she values him more than you and your friendship.

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  • SatanPag

    I would tell her that from your view it doesn't look like she's being very best-friend-like, and if she doesn't quit there will be problems.
    And as someone else said talk to your boyfriend. If he seems like he likes her, just dump him because you'll be wasting your time otherwise, if he's looking at other girls.
    If she's really your best friend, REMIND HER THAT FRIENDS DON'T DATE OTHER FRIENDS' EX'S. That is, if you break up with your bf.

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  • missmeow

    Talk to your boyfriend and then cut ties with her cause shes a bitch.
    Just be careful. When you're no longer friends she'll stop "hiding" it and go for him. So thats where talking to your man comes in.

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  • theytookthisone

    You should confront your friend about it, if she does not change her ways or respect your feelings she does not seem to be that good of a friend. Or if your boyfriend is giving her attention/flirting, maybe you should rethink being with him too. But I really think its disrespectful for your "bestfriend" to be doing that

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  • kittenlittle

    only if your boyfriends shows signs of liking her. If he likes her more than you and they will be better together, then you should probably leave him

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  • Adallynn726

    talk to ur boyfriend and her about this. n watch out for her, she seems like shes trying to THROW it in your face obviously. Not cool

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  • emilydoll

    I've been in this situation. It didn't end pretty, drop herr

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  • emilydoll

    No don't talk to her drop her, she doesn't deserve an explanation or talk. She's not your friend. Shes a nasty traitor.

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  • emilydoll

    Omgosh! How can you be this persons friend!!! Drop her now seriously!

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  • xstarbugyx

    She prob already put the moves on him
    :-0

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  • ygrowup

    You should be careful of her around your guy!

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  • deb

    I would stop talking to her.

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  • Yuppp she likes him. Talk to her about it. Sorry =\

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  • I think u should be worried from the sound of this. Best friends liking UR boyfriend can be SSOO annoying

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