Is it normal that i think my best friend likes me?

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My best friend is a guy but the thing about it is I haa boyfriend. My best friend is how most guys are nice and sweet. The only things that I put into question is that when I mention my boyfriend he always say that he is "gay" which I find childish and whichever guy talks to me is gay. Other things is that if I ask him to get me something he does, opens the doors for me, and only real nice to me even though he said I'm like a sister. People get us confused all the time for a couple which I find revolting. He always seems to blush about it and I just have a gut feeling that he does like me more than just a sister as he calls me. I've heard that we have to trust our gut feeling but I'm not sure about this one..I don't want to end up assuming and its not correct. Is it that he does but since I have a boyfriend he cannot act out on it or I'm just the sister he says I am..so confused. I really don't understand how guys work with this.

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  • anaughtymoose
    9 years ago

    From what you're saying, he may like you. But there's nothing wrong with that, if he didn't like you to some extent you two probably wouldn't have been friends. Yes, I understand you mean "liking" more than as friends, but what I said still stands.

    Him blushing when people say that, isn't a give-away either. Most people would blush, retort or laugh it off. When I go out to the mall with my sister, there were more than a few times when people would say the same thing to us. She would blush and I would laugh and correct them.

    Here's the bottom line though: If he says you're like his sister, than he already knows where he stands in your relationship as friends. If he DOES like you more than a friend, then he's working really hard to keep himself in check so he doesn't cross the line. All out of respect for you [and himself].

    Take the advice from Anime8 also, don't rock the boat.
    It's hard finding people you can trust and call close friends, don't let something like this potentially create a problem.

    Good luck!

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  • Anime8
    9 years ago

    You're basing this all on a gut feeling. From the sound of it just ignore that gut feeling. If he says he likes you as a sister then great, keep it that way if the thought of dating him is revolting. Don't bother asking him how he really feels because other wise you will be putting yourself in a situation where you could end the friendship. Essentially if everything is going alright then don't rock the boat. You aren't leading him on, you have no clue what his real motives are so that's why I suggest to not dwell on it.

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