Is it normal that i think little of myself, but am obessed over looks?

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I think very little of myself, I don't argue when someone says I am pretty because I want more compliments, I argue because genuinely I find myself very unattractive, I try too hard to have people like me, or agree with everything I do. I let everyone walk all over me, and for some reason I can't seem to let go of my emotionally abusive boyfriend for unknown reasons. I complain constantly to my friends, yet in hind sight I see nothing to really complain about. Constantly every morning, I stand in front of the mirror obsessing over my weight, my hair, my face. I can't seem to accept what I look like or anything. Perhaps I'm just a pessimist..

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    You have officially risen to the rank of "fantastic". You're the same as anyone, but rather than take out your insecurities on others, you're honest and self-aware enough to know how your life is played out. Sure, you moan about it, but who doesn't like a good moan? I know I do.

    Personally, I just like your honesty. It's very refreshing. Don't worry about the rest.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    Next time you're picking at yourself in the mirror just say, "I'm only human". And realize that you're fine the way you are. Don't change for anyone.

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  • lynser
    12 years ago

    I THINK YOU NEED TO DUMP YOUR ABUSEIVE BOYFRIEND TO BETTER YOUR LIFE

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  • EGGYWHIFF
    12 years ago

    im the same way, we all are!- you cant define ugly, if you look in the mirror you are judging what you personally wouldnt find attractive in somebody else.. where as other people have theyre own ideas on what ugly is ... get it?
    you stay with your b.f , coz your afraid your too ugly to get somebody... where as your not ... avoid the mirror when you wake up...until youve had a shower, and eaten , got some fresh air...give yourself a hard slap on both cheeks, and massage under your eyes for a minute... then look in the mirror , youll look awesome ...

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  • udontknowmoi
    12 years ago

    I'm the exact same way.....

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