Is it normal that i think i will probably never get over my ex

So, here's my story. It's about a guy that I went to school with. I've liked him since i've been 14. 5 years later and I am still in love with him. We dated after school for a couple months. But he totally broke my heart, and really is kind of an asshole. He talked shit about me after we broke up and he told everyone that he broke up with me because I wouldn't put out. Yet I just CAN'T get over him. We see each other occasionally and have sex, but it's not helping me get over him.. not like I thought it would. I doubt I ever will. There is just SOMETHING about this guy. I can't explain it. Is it normal to never be able to get over someone?

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  • iLuvAnimalzz33

    wait, you broke up with him and he talks shit about you and you have sex with him? thats stupid.

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  • Gidget

    Quit having sex with him and dnt contact him find someone else

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  • People that go back to ex's are stupid and only making themselves headed for heartache and drama

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  • MfDoom

    I remember when you kissed me and kissed me,
    With tears coursing your cheeks, and you said,
    "Earthly bodies must often separate for earthly purpose,
    And must live apart impelled by worldly intent.

    "But the spirit remains joined safely in the hands of
    Love, until death arrives and takes joined souls to God.

    "Go, my beloved; Love has chosen you her delegate;
    Over her, for she is Beauty who offers to her follower
    The cup of the sweetness of life.
    As for my own empty arms, your love shall remain my
    Comforting groom; you memory, my Eternal wedding."

    it's one of the saddest and most normal things that can happen

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  • tweety

    well u will have to avoid hm to get over him.. as for me its so hard to get over them, but unles imove foward and like some one else..
    bt if u keep on seen hm and havn sex, he will always be in ur mind girl get it together and he is probably using u just stay away!!boys are doggs

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  • Aaargh

    Be more clever. Giving him sex "once in a while" puts you in a inferior position to him, especially when he probably knows you like him so much.

    Maybe distance yourself a bit from him so you can see clearly what to do. Maybe that would give him the distance to see you as a possible girlfriend as well instead of something he can "have" anytime he wants.

    I hope this helps somehow.

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  • cheerbabe

    That's normal. I still am in love with my ex. We broke up a little less then a year ago and don't even talk. I won't see him ever again after next week though. Oh did I mention I have a boyfriend now? Yeah he knows I still love my ex. Sweetie it is totally normal. Do not listen to other people, only listen to your heart. If it's love then it will work out(:

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  • fancyj

    The sex won't help at all! It's just gonna make it harder to move on. And don't worry, when you find someone who you love you'll get over him.

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  • U shud stop the occasional hang outs because u fall for him all over again each time. Ingnore him and just let him go. It wil be easier to forget h wen u don't c him.

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