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I think I'm in love with my boyfriend of one month and want to make his birthday which is next month special. Do you think it's right for me to want to give him my v-card?
You 'think' you're in love?!
You are a child, who is not ready for the emotional trauma of the impending drama. It's supposed to be about YOU, not him!!
Keep your legs closed and think about it if he's still around this time next year.
I don't think you should. But I'm not going to sit here and treat you like a child. Feelings (I'm assuming you're a teenager) at this age are not dependable, they sway everyday, and if you're considering losing your virginity make sure you're considering the fact that your relationship is new. If in a year or so you feel like you thinks it's best for the both of you and you can talk about it in a conversation then sure, go ahead. But I don't think at this early stage in your relationship it will be beneficial to either of you.
NOOOOOOOOOOOO
honestly--it's your god damn virginity, man. It's irreplaceable. Don't trust your feelings. Feelings are stupid. Trust time and what it will reveal to you.
In three months, if you still give two shits about him, you can think about giving him your virginity.
okay look. this is nor a question of his birthday. i waited two months and my first time was awesome. really. but i was ready for it and that's the only thing that counts. not his birthday - you two would be too excited anyway, i think. so, if you're really yure you're ready, go on. if not, just wait. it will happen at the right time.
@thinkingaboutit I know what you mean, it's just that I've never felt this way before. I feel like I'm ready.