Is it normal that i think i'm extremely ugly?

(female, btw)
Everyday when I look in the mirror, I can see all my flaws. From my dark spots, to the extra hair on the top of my lips. Whenever I think I look really good, I take a selfie, I look at it, and see that my flaws are clearly visible. I would put a paper bag over my face when I go out, but if I do that, everyone would look at me. But if I go in public with my face out in the open, it makes me feel like everyone is staring at me and judging me. Even if I put makeup on I still look like the grudge. Hell, even if I get plastic surgery I'd still look like a burnt sweet potato. Anyone have this problem? IIN?

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Based on 66 votes (45 yes)
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Comments ( 14 )
  • Holzman_67

    maybe you just have to stop thinking of yourself in a physical way

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  • Digsbie

    I would bet you are nowhere near as bad as you think. Maybe you are being too critical? take care

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  • Azaman

    Don't put yourself down so much.

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  • nopeity_derp

    Just think about this
    Pretty much everyone is worried about someone else spotting their own flaws and therefore are too busy worring about themselves to worry about your flaws, and therefore you have nothing to worry about :)

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  • Tempest-au

    Yes, it's normal (or at least common) to think like this, particularly in our beauty obsessed society (although, I've noticed its starting to change, slowly).

    There are 2 important things here:

    - Almost certainly, you are not anywhere near as ugly as you think.

    - Even if you are "plain", all you will do is stop the shallow people from wasting your time. Decent human beings will look beneath the exterior and see the person within - you know, your personality, etc.

    If you want a totally honest and independent view, PM me and stick a photograph of your face in your profile. Please, make it your face though - I've seen plenty of photos of Mrs McGillicutty already.

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  • Ass_gas

    Get your selective perception working. Screen out hostile looks. Stay focused on your goals.

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  • happywheels

    everybody's beautiful :)

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    • Tempest-au

      True, but some people are physically unattractive. Just being honest.

      http://www.bitemycrankshaft.com/images/MsMac.jpg

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  • Decorum

    I have had the very same problem for years. I never even been complimented my entire life. I have learned to accept it though. So what if you are ugly? Some people are born pretty others are not, maybe you are one of the latter. So what. It's not your fault so don't punish yourself. Think about your good inner qualities instead. Your friends like you, right? It means you are a nice person. Try not focusing on your outside too much and instead focus on the inside. The beauty of the inside is that flaws can be fixed! ;)

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  • mokuton

    Maybe you are a fucking troll

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    • im flattered ( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°)

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  • Advicez

    Don't feel that way! Try out different styles, invite your friends to judge it. When they give you a thumbs up, see if YOU like it. However, if your parents don't let you shop, Just tell them the way you feel. If your friends like it but you don't like it, tell them that you don't like it. Keep trying out styles. If you try out soo much styles, and you think you never look good, well, keep trying! i think I look terrible once in a while, I try out something new, I feel like a princess! If you don't have enough money, ask your parents for some. Just know, you're beautiful!

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  • Couman

    Without having seen you, we can't very well judge if it's normal to reach that conclusion, can we?

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  • bittermayonnaise

    You've got a head like a half sucked Mango.

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