Is it normal that i think i love my girlfriend's friend

Bad move. Liking the girlfriends friend.. What if one of your boys was hittin on your girl.

I guess I will go against the grain here. I say go ahead and pursue something with the friend. I had a similar thing happen to me in that I was seriously crushing on another girl but was too afraid to act on the hints she threw at me. Anyhow I got into a relationship with another girl whom became good friends with the girl I was crushing on. When our relationship started heading downhill I started crushing on the other chick again. Once we broke up and after much debate with my friends I tried to hook up with my original crush. We went out a few times but in the end she was loyal to my ex. Now my ex truly hates me but who cares she's my ex and she hates me anyway (just a little more now) at least I don't sit in bed and wonder what if anymore. In the end you gotta look out for number 1 trust me you will probably regret not seeing what could have been.

She sounds like a terrible friend and you sound like an inconsiderate jerk. You should definitely break up with your girlfriend, she can do a lot better.

Agree with them all but no one can stop you. Seriously try to do the right thing.

I agree with both above posters! Very bad idea! Not only could u loose your girlfriend forever but can make those two girls fight and become enemies. If u don't want to b with your girlfriend anymore then fair enough but pick someone else other then your girlfriends friend! That's just cruel! Sounds to me though that the friend is probably giving u too much attention and that's one of the main reason y guys say they cheat. B honest to your girlfriend and don't hurt her more than needs b

your poor girlfriend :(

Well if your current girlfriend is losing interest then maybe break it off with her. Just be sure to give a little time before you start dating the other girl. It's not really going to matter though, the girls probably wont be friends anymore. But if you want to rationalize things, she wasn't friends with your current girlfriend until you introduced them. So that should set things normal right :)
There really doesn't seem to be an easy answer does it?

ive had horrible experiences with this situation. :(

just follow your heart what you think is best ;) ~understander

ur calling me a jerk cause i told her the truth. she doesnt have a job doesnt have a license i did everything she asked of me. we just grew apart.

I was in the position of your girlfriend. It was heartbreaking to find out this. The day we broke up he and my best friend got together.

Please, think about your girlfriends feelings before you act...:/

i think u guys r right but the thing is that they wouldnt be friends if it wasnt for me cause i was friends with the girl i like before i started dating my gf and they didnt even know each other. then they hit it off together and have been friends ever since and i think things might change if i just break up with her. to be honest i just wanna knw how she feels nd take it from there but i would give it time before i got together with her friend. like i know the feeling of having one of my buddies dating one of my ex's and to be honest i didnt have that much of a problem with it cause me nd my ex ended it on good terms. Thats why i think if i end it nicely and offer her friendship i think with time i can make my move on her friend and she wont have a problem with it. Ive done alot for my girlfriend but i can tell that even she isnt interested in me anymore and the girl i like has always helped me whenever i needed anything which is something my gf never really did for me. i think its my turn to be a little bit selfish but i dunno im just so confused. I dunno i wanna go with my heart on this one but i dnt think i can.

go for it. if it seems like the romance is dying on both ends.... i say why not! you can be selfish too. just be sure that this girl is who you can really truly see yourself with because if not, you just broke up not only your relationship with your gf but your gf and her friends as well.