Is it normal that i think i get stared all the time?

[25m]Whenever I'm in public I'm getting stared from men and women.80% of the time I catch people staring at me,especially women,if I look back they keep staring and this goes on for 4-5 seconds.The other day was out for a walk with a female friend and we saw 3 women staring at me after walking just for 1 minute,one of them stopped in front of me and kept staring at me.This happens all the time.I've also been told I'm getting looked at a lot and that the way I look at other people is very inconspicuous,most of the time people can't tell.

Anyway,the problem is that I consider myself very good looking.I rarely see someone who I think that looks better than me,at least facially,although it happens from time to time.Which is an obvious fallacy and wishful thinking,but this is how I see myself in mirrors/videos.

Today for example a male tourist saw me,said "wow" and stopped in front of me and kept staring at me.Also some women give me what I call "love eyes" where they act like they fall in love with me.I also see a alot of women fixing their hair and clothes when they see me.

I should mention that I was kinda fat with ugly haircut and ugly clothes until a year ago when I changed completely.Until then I was never looked at,I was invisible.I've also been complimented hundreds of times from men and women this last year.Even female cashiers treat me differently(or so I think)

But really something doesn't seem right.I think I'm sick,maybe narcissistic or paranoid/delussional..I mean this happens so often it's just too much.It's not what I think most of the time but when I'm in public only mostly.

Anyway I've described most of what happens,I want your honest opinion,should I visit a doctor?I was diagnosed with OCD in the past,maybe it's a new obsession?

I should note that I have a friend who is considered by most people,weird looking and unattractive and he also thinks he is good looking and that he gets stared all the time.He also tells me that I'm nothing special all the time,without me asking him.So I know other people can think highly of themselves without a particular reason.

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Comments ( 6 )
  • gloryholeflasher

    I was staring at you because I'm not accustomed to see somebody walking around out in public holding a mirror up in front of their face. How do you keep from stubbing your toe?

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  • Freedom_

    Lol these people sound like zombies. I have seen some gorgeous people, and yes people look at them but I have never noticed anything like your description.

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  • Mycatiscalledbibiana

    Its completely fine to accept your appearance, however be careful not to get too vain... As for the people staring at you, that behaviour seems very odd and is almost defeinately not normal

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  • flyingnostalgia

    You must be ugly then...well nothing can be done. You should just take the shit life gives you with humbleness

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  • dirtybirdy

    I don't think you're attractive at all.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Your modesty is overwhelming!

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