Is it normal that i think i don't have any kind of personalities?

I am 18 already but I think I'm not like the other 18 year old girl... I think I don't have any strong personality, and I guess even if I'm gone, my friends wouldn't keep me in remain... sometimes I do something to everyone to please them, not for my own good.. and when I have some alone time, sometimes I don't know what to do. I can't share what I like or what I'm doing in social media to people cus I'm too shy, and too afraid to be... commented..? so I think even my best friends might not know what I like... and I don't know most of things, my knowledge is in basic level I guess... I barely show my emotions and what I feel inside, if I'm mad I can't get angry to people, if I'm pissed off I can't totally show it... but if I'm happy, I can completely show it. hmmm what can I do, to have a strong personality? thx

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  • needhelp2016

    It might help to take a personality test. Even if it doesn't work for you I find it quite interesting, it described me perfectly. You can take them online for free :)

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  • Kindbred

    I am also an 18 yr. old girl with no personality. I probably have one, but I cover it up without about 10 other personalities so I don't even know which is the real one.

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  • Tealights

    Everyone has personality. However, it can get buried or watered down by insecurities cause by fear, stress, and more. Apart of life is overcoming obstacles that not only present themselves in the world around us, but also from within. If you truly want to be yourself, you can't worry about what people will approve or disapprove of, as long as you're not harming anyone emotionally or physically, then it's okay.

    Start small. Get a blank notebook and without thinking about if someone would like it or not, just write out what you find interesting. It could be anything. Once you have a list, see here you can enjoy some of those things, whether it be in your community, high school, or college. Get active and meet people who has the same interest as you. However, do this at your own pace, you're still very young and what you're feeling is something 99.99% of the world has gone through at some point in their life and can definitely understand.

    If you want quicker answers to give you peace of mind about personalities, Google 16 Personalities, visit their site, and take a test. Don't overthink the questions and answer truthfully. It's true some personalities are bolder than others, but it doesn't make them better, because you can be just as strong by being assertive.

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  • Ass_gas

    Welcome to our site! We are all a bunch of misfits just like you. You can experiment by saying whatever the fuck you want without any consequences. It's really fun.

    Do you like cock? Tell us about it.

    Do you hate your Mom and Dad? Talk shit big time.

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    Will the people here think you are weird? Fuck them. Just change your user-id.

    The more you cut loose, the better you will feel about yourself.

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  • riffraffy

    The fear of being commented on is a big one. It'll hold you back from creating things: a novel, a picture, even a social media post. It's an over-sensitivity that's all too common, and it's caused from having a huge ego.

    Consider your ego a barrier between who you really are and the outside world. You need to break it down if you ever hope to express yourself.

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  • sandnigga

    awww well at least you can show your happiness :)

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