Is it normal that i think i don't get my boyfriend off?

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My boyfriend & I have been together for going on 8 months now. He is always telling me how hot/sexy I am & we get along great. So, I wake up this morning to of course my alarm clock & then to my boyfriend's morning wood. We start to have sex & we get it going for about 5 min & then he stops. Didn't get off or anything. I was thinking maybe it was because I was a little dry towards the end but I've been thinking about it all morning. Of course I want my boyfriend to get off when we have sex because then I feel like I've done my job & turned him on. I've always been self conscious of my body & so that kind of crossed my mind afterwards, but only a little. Is this normal or am I just thinking a little too far into things?

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  • Crudhouse
    12 years ago

    I can't get off when I'm stressed doesn't matter how hot anybody is

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  • courios77
    13 years ago

    have him use the bathroom and pee first he mite of been to sensitive to have sex.im sure its not u honey.then after he pees he should with out a doubt be able to have sex longer then 5 mins.if it continues try having some fore play first and him good and hard.

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  • MssMurd3r
    13 years ago

    Well then maybe it's a combo of some things. Maybe it's his self-esteem, a medical condition, or he might not be comfortable with himself. Try to make his relax and show that ur confident. Even if ur not just try to act like it. Ull gain confidence. Don't worry.

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  • iowagirl3
    13 years ago

    It's not the first time that it's happened but I have brought it up to him before. He just reassures me about it & then its dropped. I think it just has a lot to do with my own insecurites about relationships & men. I need to get over it fast though before I run my relationship into the ground. :(

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  • MssMurd3r
    13 years ago

    It's normal to think it's ur fault but I'm sure it's not hon. Is this the first time it's happened? If yes then no worries if it's happened before gently bring it up to him.

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