Is it normal that i think he's rude?

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Well I met this guy on a well-known dating website. he ain't stunning but just my type. So we started our convo alright. Two minutes into our convo, he asked to see my private picture. I played around a little, and he got access to them one minute after. About four minutes into our convo, he casually mentioned that he was naughty. I asked him what he was looking for (since I'm done with casual fun at this stage). He said he was looking for someone affectionate and cheeky. Then he said he was looking something serious with someone who likes a lot of sex. I suddenly got annoyed, telling him bringing up sex in our first casual conversation is rude. He deleted me.
I'm not upset or anything, but want to see if I'm overreacting.
I like sex too. I'm sure most the people I've dated or hooked up with got a normal , if not huge sex drive. However, this guy specifies that he wants a lot of sex in his relationship, maybe he's ...somewhat abnormal？

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Perhaps he's been in relationships where there has been a huge difference in sex drives and it has become something of importance to him. He probably didn't want to invest any extra time in anyone who is a prude.

    Personally, I can understand why he would be so upfront about it. It is a MAJOR problem when your partner has a weak sex drive.

    I don't think it was rude of him to sort out what type you are right from the beginning. You are on a dating site: sex is an inevitable part of successful dating.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    first: he's dating online... that screams sexually deprived.

    second: he stopped the convo and deleted you, showing thats all he was interested in... be happy about that.

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  • NoraBaker
    11 years ago

    All right, this guy didn't tell you he wants a lot of sex in his relationship. In fact, he doesn't want one at all. He said he wants a lot of sex in YOUR relationship. You're lucky he deleted you.

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