Is it normal that i think he is trying to sabotage?

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I have been living with my boyfriend for 5 years.While living together we lived with his friend and now we are living with his family.Through all of this my boyfriend has gone through 6 cars now we are on our 7 th car.We live out in the boonies where no buses come.The car is our only way to get out of here and move out.He keeps on driving his car fast and this is how he ruins our cars.I even tell him I feel uncomfortable with how he drives and I have told him if he ruins this car I am moving back with my parents to get my own car and move out with a friend.I don't know what more I can do.I think it's bulls*** I felt I had to give him an ultimatum.So what do you think?

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  • buckman
    13 years ago

    He sounds immature and you sound like you're beginning to get stuck. Don't get stuck. When you make a threat, stick by it.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    Well, you've brought it to his attention more then once. So it's not like he doesn't know that you're annoyed. He know's what he's doing wrong, and he need's to stop his ridiculous habit of ruining cars. If he chooses not to, do what you set out to do from the beginning, get your own car and move out with a friend. Other then that, their isn't much you can do. He obviously isn't listening if he's still doing it. Stick with your original plan.

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  • Waya
    8 years ago

    Follow your gut feeling. Your gut is like the yellow brick road so follow it

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Nothing wrong with telling him how it is.

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