Is it normal that i think chicks in relationships are nuts?

So you think that all women are like this because of the small group of friends that you have?

It's not a "female" thing, it a human being thing. My guys friends (actually all) have had at least one situation of "that girl" that got to them, and have had some insane melt downs, over their girls. One went to jail, for stalking his ex (he parked outside of her house and would beg me to use my car to sit in) and eventually he did a stint for beating the crap out of her current bf -- One would confide in me for hours (all while calling his "gf" incessantly and punching walls/crying in a freakish grunt-like hysteria, thinking she was not answering due to a ridiculous cheating suspicion) She eventually told me that he wanted marriage/more and she didn't feel the same, about him. One crept outside his gf's house, knocked on the door for an hour, until she answered and forced himself in the house, to which I had to force him to leave with me, ultimately, because she left him and he didn't want to accept that; Men are just more "aggressive" in their jealous/passionate rages and often hide it. It's us friends who see/hear the other side and know how they (we) are. Most of the time the wall punching/crying, isn't seen by the girl, it's in privacy and they would never admit what they acted like, over those "missed calls".. But I unfortunately, I have seen it and heard it all.. haha. Stalking was a serious issue, I saw. 90% of the time, these girls had no clue, about that aspect.

One in particular, drove 5hrs to try and find his ex, even though she'd taken their son and left him (due to cheating/his abuse).. He hit her, not the newborn son, but he didn't give two shits about the kid and made that apparent in conversation (he was actually jealous of his own son/the attention she showed him) He just wanted HER back.. So he left town and tried to "rekindle", but could not get through, due to her family protecting her.

The most awkward situation, was a college friend who destroyed his ex's apt, because she left him. He said he just wanted to grab clothes, NOPE, he went ape and destroyed all of her shit! I had to call her and have her come to the apt, cops called. Another bad one!

I have heard and seen it all. College years, post-college (post is actually worse)... These are guys that girls would think were immune to "pain" or heartache. Fit, attractive, athletes, unattainable acting/popular etc

It just sounds like you're younger or do not have guy friends that'd confide in you, like they do other males.

Keep in mind, yes, even other men CAN/will get just as crazy, when inlove, most women just think this is not true because a guy either has not shown this type of behavior towards them specifically or because they do not know what their bf is like behind a macho/nothing effects me facade; My friends have shown the worst sides of them for the girls that "got" to them, the keepers, the wifey material, the beauty queens... And not all girls can grasp us so easily, but when the right one does, we can get intense. I've had my nonsensical moments, I admit. Just not aggressive. But those situations do not even brink the emotional friends I've had. Who cried their hearts out, laid in bed lifeless over a split.

Men just try TOO hard to hide their feelings, when that fails, you see hulk and it's scary, or you just do not see the pain they really endure. People love hard, it's unavoidable.

Yes, all 100% of "chicks" act exactly the same.

Nope, this is not normal to believe this.

I do get what you're saying but it's also smart to check FB and all that as I would imagine they could easily find out if a man is playing them or whatnot.

No, I've noticed it with alot of women actually.
working in the field im in, I hear alot of women freak out about their boyfriends.
I guess it was unfair of me to say all women, but you have to admit, alot of women are like that.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cn97UuH7vZY

@Scarlett5528, Yes, but that's what I mean, both genders are "crazy" acting, given they care too much or are uncontrollable, when inlove.

Guys are far more dangerous in their suspicions and the danger is often imposed with threats and size. Destroying property, stalking or even worse, hitting someone that is 110pds (when the guy is 195-200pds of muscle) that is far more intense and unnerving. I'd rather hear a female friend whine/use FB/yell at a buddy even, as opposed to know what my buddies have done AND said.

Seems to me that when the girls get regular sex in a relationship, they calm down and are less rattled by irrational insecurities. The guys calm down a bit as well.

I have to agree! Hell, I turn nuts when I am in a relationship. I go fucking toxic. I even know I turn into a bitch, so I have forsaken relationships for a while because I hate being that way.

I'm not like that. I actually act like the guy In the relationship and the guys I've been with are more of the girlfriend type, wanting me home ASAP after work. It's just because of my past reputation when I worked in bars and used to flit with guys even tho I was in a relationship and I did do a nude spread for some newspaper lol but that was years ago when I was young and stupid.

Anyways as a matter if fact, I should be home to my man now cuz he just called wondering where i am. Id admit i did used to lie about who i was with and where i was all the time but thats only cuz i used to just hang out with guys. but right now I'm just visiting my dogs at my parents. Im also enjoying a beer now and im about to work out. I'll come home in an hour.

Anyways I work around lots of guys and I do hear them act the way they do when they're trying to reach their gfs and I know from my bfs friends and family's he would freak out if I passed out and fell asleep elsewhere without a phone call so I dunno...I think it goes both ways.