Is it normal that i think age is just a number?

Wtf?! How is he a pedo?! U don't even know how old SHE is!

I think the older you get, the less age matters.

I don't think age really matters. I have a huge crush on someone who is 37 and I'm 18. I don't believe it should be a problem.

If he makes u happy and treats u well, it shouldn't matter. People will be mean and cruel though, u need to learn to ignore them.

I think it's completely normal, Im interested in a guy who is 20 years older than me, and my friend is dating a guy who is 24 years older then she is. Age really is just a number.

Yeah, it's totally normal. I mean if an 11 year-old girl is sexually mature, there should be no reason not to have sex with her...

Someone once told me that age was just a state of mind. It's true.

In case of a pedo it does.

When I was fourteen, I got into a relationship with a man who had twenty years on me. I loved him so much it was unreal, and I know he loved me back. I don't see age as anything but a number either, and I really don't see why anyone should. As long as both partners are informed, and everything is mutual, I don't believe it should matter.

I think a relationship is where two grow with one another. One where each person compliments the other, understands the other, etc. I don't understand why so many young women want old dudes. Is money really that great? Because the old guy obviously doesn't want you intellectually! Let's face it a 50 year old man is not on the same thinking pattern as a 20 year old woman! So...why? Someone answer me, I want to understand. Because the two can't grow with one another when the man has already grown up

Age is just a number. As long as you're of legal age and the two of you enjoy each others company than I say go for it!

While everyone focuses on the negatives, try and look at the positives.

Yes, as another poster said. They will speak of memories from a time that you do not remember. However, that older person can expose you to many things that a person the sames age as you cannot. Culture, arts,foods, music,, all sorts of things. And yes, sex.

Providing he is a respectful kind. He will be more attentive to your wants and needs and also take time with you. Not just a "hurry up,let's do it"! You can experiment with your fantasies and not be concerned that he runs and tells everyone what a "freak" you are. Using the example of the girl who gave her Bf oral on a Saturday night and by time second hour Monday, EVERYONE in school knew it...

I don't know if that would bother you, but for some girls, it would.

To make a long story short, go for it. Have a nice time and enjoy one another. As far as the "daddy issue" comments, the "oh, is that your dad" and all the pedo comments, that is just people showing their own immaturity and insecurities. After a while, you'll find yourself coming back with responses that make their jaw drop as you just smile and walk away.

Good luck and have fun :-)

how would i be charged ? i'm the younger one.

its normal to feel that way.....until you find yourself being hauled off in handcuffs for molestation....On the real note as long as the age is leagal no it dosen't matter;)

Age is not just a number. Lets say you are 20 now so he is 46. When you become 34 he becomes impotent. When you become 44 he is about to die. Sounds like a good perspective, isnt it?

Ohh btw: he does NOT want a kid either because he has one or two, or because he does not want to be 65 when your kid graduates from high school.

Good luck!

It is and it isn't just a number. When your young, like under 20 or so, age means a lot. The older you get the less it matters, sorta. You must be browniepoints, at least that's what I got from the comment, and it seems to me that your under 18 and the guy is in his 40's. That's not exactly right. You may see something in him, like he's wise or something, cus he's got a lot more life experience than you, but from his side, its a bit pedo. He was out of college, if he went, before you were even born. I don't know man

age isn't just a number, it changes tons of things, inside and out. You can also be closer to death. BUT as long as both are legally adults and neither is a gold digging whore/douche, then it should be ok.

everyone dies around 100 so age isnt just a number

Well honestly we don't have sex or do anything like that so it shouldn't matter. We're well I can't call him a freind,but an aquaintance I see often for most of the year. Even if I'm underage of 18 and hes well older, if we're not doing anything bad.. It shouldn't be anything of a problem