Is it normal that i think about sex all the time,but..?

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is it normal that all the time i think about having sex, whether i am in the elevator with a guy twice my age or a creepy looking old perv,or the hot lady that i know lives next door, i always imagine just letting them rock my world, i get into details, it's like a movie plays in my head. Sometimes while i am in a taxi i just want to tell the cab driver to pull over and say lets have sex. i want to role play, i want to talk dirty i want to do it all, but here's the twist ..i haven't had sex in 10 months because i am tooooo shy to, i think all these thoughts but can't seem to open my mouth and say it or react on my feelings, even with someone i really like. my mind is like oh let him have it and then my mouth goes, stop i don't want to. why is this?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Wow, I have all these thoughts too. But unlike you, I don't do them because I never had sex. Smh. You should do it, don't let your shyness stop you.

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    • MarieWantsIt
      12 years ago

      I agree. Do it. There are plenty of web sites where you could advertise and then carefully choose.

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  • DeathAvenga
    12 years ago

    Hey,you should actually look into this if these thoughts are bothering you. You might have "pure o obsessive comulsive disorder." Where your mind focuses on one thing, typically unwanted thought like having sex with people, the same gender, or even children. It's a treatable condition and even if you get physically turned on, it doesn't mean it's your orientation. Look into because you wanting to say "let's have sex" may be an obsessive compulsive urge.

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    • *~ThePurplePixie~*
      11 years ago

      Absolutely right. OCD is tough. Unfortunately I have AS too...ah..

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    • DillionPayton
      12 years ago

      i do have a personality disorder and i do have ocd everything has to be perfect

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    • DillionPayton
      12 years ago

      also i do have urges all the time, like if i don't do something i am thinking i get really mad, my mom doesn't take me seriously she thinks i'm a drama queen

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  • carterjm4
    12 years ago

    hey we all have fantasies, and like you I have crazy things pop up in my head with the most random people. nothing wrong with waiting for the right person though, sometimes we need to find the "one" before we can let loose. Fucking is the ways of the world, but you have the power to change the status quo.

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  • ivanchikova
    12 years ago

    i feel the SAME EXACT way! so i can't answer if it's normal or not, i'm wondering the same:-/

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  • tego
    12 years ago

    each time i think of sex end up having sex with any guy.

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  • AlaHuAhkbar
    12 years ago

    you think like that cuz u really want sex

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  • simple.chicc
    12 years ago

    wow your post is so hot to me... i think it is ABSOLUTELY normal... actually, way beyond normal. lol. i always think about sex every single fucking day. omigosh! like every time i see a random person, let's say he is attractive, i would think about having sex with him and asking him but i don't do it because i'm shy and i don't like my body that's why i don't ask him. but if he did not care about how my body looks like then damn, let's get it on behbeh.

    but anyways, when i come across someone i think about having sex with, i don't do anything ): and then i think back at that moment and regret not asking them lol. that's why sometimes i go on craigslist and read mens posts which are so hot to me (: lol. yours is so hot too.

    i am sooo shyyy when it comes to being sexual and thinking about sexual things to share with another person in real life... but when i'm alone or talk on the phone with some random guy, i get so horny so i end up not being shy while i talk on the phone lol. it's sooo hooot.

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  • myweirdself16
    12 years ago

    do you mean you feel horny on a regular basis? i feel like that a lot.

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  • KK12
    12 years ago

    Same here i'll be talking to like someone and i have some of the exact same thoughts but maybe a bit more dirtyer ;)

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  • SoccerStud88
    12 years ago

    wait...are you Bi OP?

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    • DillionPayton
      12 years ago

      i actually am, why you asked?

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      • SoccerStud88
        12 years ago

        cuz you started talking about guys then switched to girls. I think it would be frustrating to be attracted to both sexes because EVERYONE could be a potential sexual mate...would feel nervous around more people :S

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        • DillionPayton
          12 years ago

          It is really frustrating to be attracted to both sexes for the exact reason you gave

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I get this too! all the time! and I'm only 13!! I really like this boy and every time I see him, I think of his p***s inside of me. an his tongue in my v****a...

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    • DillionPayton
      12 years ago

      i think thats a little normal for you though because your going through changes getting older

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    i know. i want though this myself it werid but you need to do it or it keep happening.this wat you do score 1 to 10. do a 4 or 5 and work your way up ok good luck :)

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  • Grendel1013
    12 years ago

    Yes it's normal, as long as it doesn't interfere with you life, friends, family, health put you into any danger or is Illegal.

    I am the same way. You can never tell by talking to me that I am thinking of " Rocking your world" because I keep it under lock and key, I keep it in check. Only time I let it come out is when I meet a Woman that is just like me, then at that point it's both consensual,and open game.

    It's kind of a curse because we crave it all the time, it's like that itch you just can't reach to scratch.

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    • DillionPayton
      12 years ago

      sure is, it just makes me feel like i am a creep

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  • Jhhyuuyoh
    12 years ago

    I just hump and swear and have sex with my body pillllllllow

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  • mandylane
    12 years ago

    same here. only that i do have sex every now and then.
    maybe if you would get to know someone real good, let them know u're a bit shy, they can ease into it with ya!

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    start talking babeh life is all about fucking ;)

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